Pastor Khathide has counselled Women who have complained:my husband treats me as if I were his sister. There was one who told him I am tired of getting sex fortnightly like a salary.

Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual pleasures in Hill brow. Have you ever asked yourself what those wives have that you don't? Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties. If you are a married woman, you should sleep naked and let your bum touch your husband.

Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a vagina. They page through magazine and even go to stores hoping to see what is hidden under panties, because their wives hide it from them.

Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman should parade naked and do some modelling to tempt her husband. There are many married women who don't know what their husbands penises look like. They only feels it when he enters her.

They have switched off the light before undressing. A penis is a wife's toy, she is supposed to play with it. He blames couples for not making time for sex and complaining about being tired after a day's work. You find many couples who have been sexually starved for years. God created sex for procreation and also for pleasure. You can't marry and not have a good time in bed. Who said you can only have sex at night?

Why can't you drive home during lunch and have a quickie with your wife? We are all equal in sex, it is not just about a woman satisfying a man. You have to satisfy each other. Have you ever seen a woman who has been satisfied? Have you noticed how she glows and becomes energetic?

May the lord bless you. This is the "whole Truth, nothing but the Truth" so God help us from the beginning.