You promised to see her parents as soon as you're back, Unfortunately you came back and changed your line..

She didn't force you to come and see her people, but you did and after that day, you never came back, the annoying part is up till now you haven't told her what she did.

You slept with her and went at her back to tell your friends " that babe nah giver' thereby painting her a harlot.

You will send a lady to go and see your parents even when you're outside the country. The next day you will start demanding for nude and sex video.

You have been dating a lady for 1 to 2 years, sleeping with her, using her as a wife, immediately marriage is mentioned.

You said your pastor or one woman of God said she is not your wife..( she will bring you back luck if you marry her) but you forgot you have been sleeping with her ooo

After 2 to 3 years of a relationship, you said your people doesn't marry from her community.

You know you're married, yet you keep lying to her that you're single, only for her to find out the that you're married with kids..

You're in a relationship with someone, you just woke up one day and stop calling without no reason..

You have two Facebook account, one is where you celebrate her, another is for another lady..

You're outside the country; you told her to wait for you but you came back and married another.

Year in Year out you're making promises, and the poor lady will keep waiting..

Later you will tell her " if you see someone else you can marry" 

You have the heart to engage two ladies in one month, even at the end you will marry none.

You met on social media handle, after all the constant calls and video calls.... Immediately you met in person, you stopped calling..

You met a lady today, within few days you started demanding for sex, if she said No!

" You told her she is not serious'

Just because she slept with you now you feel that how she sleeps with every man.( sex isn't love)

You claim to be in a relationship with a woman, yet she is the one that calls and care for you.

The worst of it is that one woman isn't enough for you..

How can you claim to love a woman, and you call her ones in a week , sometimes you don't even call ( Tears of a single lady)

When a woman is begging "attention " from you, you're indirectly telling her you are not the one for her.

If our fathers and mothers behaved in this manner, many of us won't be in existence..

Be honest with your intention.

Don't be the reason for her tears.

If you're not ready; hide your face..

DELAY IN MARRIAGE

Girls at the age of 18-24 years always attract serious men who are fully ready to marry them, but at this age most of our girls/sisters never wish to hear anything about marriage.

1. I'm too young for that.

2. Who cares about marriage.

3. I'm focused on my books.

4. I want to gather some money first.

5. Marriage is full of problems.

These are some of few statements ladies talk of at their youth age.

But these girls will be having serious & series of sex relationship with small boys of their age, because at that age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them, but they will prefer to choose those boys rather than the real men who want to marry them. They are still young to marry right, but they are not young to have sex with boys.

No problem, God is watching you.

At age of 25-27, parents will start asking them the following questions;

1. How far?

2. Don't you have any one yet ?

3. Are you not planning to get married?

4. Are you seeing that all your mates are getting married ?

5. Don't you know you are getting old?

But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters, not knowing there is nothing left inside.

With all these questions by her own parents, she will now be thinking and asking herself things like: My mates are marrying,

1. Does it mean am old enough to marry?

2. Hmmm, how should I go about it?

3. My boyfriends are not serious about asking my hand in marriage.

4. They are not even ready to marry yet.

5. Well, God knows the best. I believe in God.

See oooh...!, she has started putting her blame on God. "Allāh's time is the best" OK, I agree for argument sake.

At age 27-30 they now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex and play with again.

They will start looking for serious relationship that will lead to marriage, but unfortunately, at this age of 27-30 not all men will be asking their hand in marriage.

You will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don't want to marry them. Please we beg you, leave us alone.

No single man at age 27-30 will like to marry a lady of 30-35. Now you hear the sisters say age does not matter.

My sister, it matters a lot.

Imagine buying a rotten tomato for $10 and your friend buys a fresh one for $7. Yes, that's how it feels like in marriage too.

Remember you rejected men because you think you were too young. What makes you think your old age does not matter to us?

That's why some men go back to their villages to find young girl to marry when the city ones are not serious about marriage and those that are serious happen to be old for them.

At age 30-35, her friends will ask her:

1. Why are you not married yet by this age of yours?

2. Is it not getting too late for you ?

You will hear her asking you some silly questions like...

1. Are you God?

2. Or do you want to marry me?

3. Is it a crime to be single at 30 or 35?

4. Did I see a man willing to marry me but I refused?

5. God knows the best for everyone please.

At age 30-35 they will start praying like never before, moving from one church to another. If she's a Muslim or Christian, she will start praying night prayers, fasting and dressing modestly.

If you ask her for dating, she would burst out to say:

1. My brother, I'm not like them.

2. Am looking for a serious man, a husband not dating.

3. If you truly love me go and see my parents for marriage.

4. I can't do anything with you without my parents concern.

Dear parents, they have started knowing your worth. When she was 18-24, she was doing everything without considering you as parents.

You don't expect a young man of 27-30 to marry you of 30-35 as his house wife when there are younger pretty girls out there.

Even if he chooses to ignore your age and marry you, his family and friends will discriminate you.

Men that will be interested to marry you will be of 45 yrs and above and mind you, those men are married with kids except you wanna be second or third wife.

Everything in life has its own season and time.

There's no lady at age 30-35 seeking for marriage who haven't been approached during 18-24. But by then, they were busily jumping from clubs/parties to hotel rooms looking for FUN not MARRIAGE.

Not everything is about prayer. God who created you has made a plan for you. But when you change the plan or miss the road, please don't disturb the peace of God. Because, He will be busy planning for your younger sister.

Why do we have high rate of single mothers and single ladies? Does it mean there no men but only boys?

Thousands of working class ladies are out there confirmed single. Your Master's of PhD is ZERO without a husband.

Yes, Education is key but don't neglect a marriage proposal all in the name of your studies. Both of you are matured enough to wait if you're serious of getting married.

It's never too late to ask for forgiveness or have a second thought of mind. For our God is a merciful and gracious Lord.

Change your mind..