Good Evening guys..... You see eh, many People make the mistake of marrying the wrong person, getting into a bad marriage as a result and then when it all breaks down they conclude that Marriage is a Scam, that a good Marriage is not possible. 

A Lady dates a Bad guy and then she concludes that all Guys are bad

A Guy dates a Jezebel and concludes that all Ladies are bad.

A Woman has been in a bad Marriage, her conclusion and advice becomes anti marriage, instead of admitting that she made a mistake by choosing wrongly. 

You hear statements like "all Men are Dogs"

Why not just ADMIT that THE MAN you married is a Dog instead of calling all Men dogs?

Why are we so eager to pass the blame of our wrong decisions onto an institution like Marriage.

There are Good People. 

There are Bad People. 

Marriage isn't the Problem.

The People we Marry are.

Us.

You. Me

Our inability to chose rightly (wrong choice systems), the second problem

Be careful the experience the person advising you has had.

That's the deception experience can give,

Experience can make one biased and bitter. 

PS: I'm not saying because someone has had a bad experience in the past doesn't make their advice invalid, no, there's a lot you can learn from such persons, but their advice can only count as long as it's not anti scripture and anti marriage. 

Experience can be THE TRUTH.

But 

Experience IS NOT ALWAYS the TRUTH.

GOD'S WORD IS THE TRUTH.

GOD'S WORD WILL ALWAYS BE THE TRUTH.

Want to know how Marriage should be?

Go to the Word FIRST. 

Don't let anyone make you afraid, or discouraged

No matter their experience, ANY OPINION OR ADVICE that IS NOT WORD based is not the TRUTH.. It's just their experience

WATCH and PRAY

Your case Shall be different.

For my Brothers. .

PROPOSING 101

So another video surfaced on  net over the weekend, public proposal gone wrong,

Crowd gathered, phone cameras were rolling, focused on a guy on his knees, and an obviously irritated lady, the lady didn't say Yes.

The shame wasn't fictional.

The embarrassment nko, epic.. 

Let me just put it straight up. 

"Dear Brother, before you propose (especially in the public), make sure you know she will say Yes."

You have not done you HOMEwork well, you now decided to come and propose OUTSIDE.

What art thou thinking?

👉 That if you propose to her in the public, (a restaurant, shopping mall or on the street in the middle of the day), that she will DEFINITELY accept, because people are watching or why exactly?

I pity you.

Keke napep haf not jam your egungun in the Lagos/Ibadan express way before, that's why.

A Lady who has not said Yes to you in PRIVATE (this is a riddle, let him that is wise understand), you are now proposing to her in PUBLIC, does that make sense? 

👉 That she will think it is Romantic? 

A public proposal is not every lady's fantasy.

Because Kasie proposed to JANE In a shopping mall, you that is dating JANET, you want to copy Kasie,... 

Not every lady wants a public proposal, and not every lady that wants a public proposal wants it to be on the streets either.

Stop copying and pasting, proposal is not school assignment.

Private or Public, stylishly ask your own lady her preference. 

Don't disgrace we your kinsmen on national TV, we deserve better.