Hello folks, I saw a hilarious question online which I thought to share it here and know if we had experienced it before, the question was have you dated your neighbor before?.

We know that in most places In Africa today, some of our parents see it as a crime to fall in love with our neighbors or even people close to us, but we took our time to hear from people who have had similar experiences, this was what we got, enjoy.

When we interviewed David this was what he said: "We kinda grew up together. Always fighting till we got to SS3 and as strange it could be, I started having feelings for her the day she defended me on the street(that babe get mouth) I approached her with love letter and she accepted. We dated for like 9months without anyone suspecting or knowing. It ended in tears cos the elder brother who was dating my aunt(staying with us) discovered! That guy no get joy".

Emeka also said: " it was very funny thing to do, I have tried it once She was  always happy when ever am having issues with my girlfriend. to be honest with you guys, No body in the compound Know we are dating because she said I should not tell anyone about our relationship omo!!!! See enjoyment".

Angela didn't go into full details about her relationship with one of her neighbor but this was what she said "Well it will be a year next month,He is one of the nicest guy I have ever met. He is amazing. Just that it's childhood and neighbour's love about to turn into marriage love."

Anthony also told us his experience too "My wife was my neighbor back in school. I cherished her behavior, she was amazing and here we are as husband and wife".

Well the last but not the least this was 

Mercy's own  experience of dating her neighbor "It was the best relationship I ever had... no one knew we were together at first so we snuck around going to movies and shows, we had a few ups and downs but because we were living so close and saw each other every day we always worked them out and now 7 years later here we are".

Good day folks,expecially the male folks because we are going to look into how a guy can get a girl he likes or have a crush on to be his, so I don't think any of our female folks have anything to do with the article, but you can still read up you female folks out there.

So without wasting much of our time, I'm going to share some tips to our guys on how to get that beautiful girl we are crushing on to be yours.

For you to get that girl, number of thing that a girl likes or looks out for first in a guy is if the guy is confident enough. Most girls don't like shy guys or a guy who can't stand out for them when they are in trouble or have one problem or the other to solve, they love their men to be more man enough, so when next you Want to go ask that girl out make sure you go out all bold.

Secondly, when approaching a girl make sure you look good, as studies has revealed that girls look at the female folks dressing when they are being approached, so make sure you look neat and smart when approaching that beautiful babe.

Then girls also look at how you speak, in this case they check whether, you talk man enough, if you can speak good English in most of the African countries, and if you're confident enough speaking with then which I mentioned about being confident when approaching a girl earlier.

Then the worse mistake we guys make when we want to ask a girl out, is we ask her such question, when she's with her friends, what on Earth will make you do such?, Girls and mostly shy, so they might give you a negative answer, since they are with their friends to avoid being seen cheap by their friends. So guys stop that ask her out when she's alone.

Then after you've approached her and you guys have known each, make sure you hangout with her, tell her sweet stories, don't ever try telling her about your ex if you've had one because you didn't only spoil the mood, you spoilt the entire relationship which you were about building.

Then treat her like a gentleman, buy her romantic gifts like flowers, teddy bears, send her romantic texts. By doing all this, when ever you're man enough or ready to ask her out, she won't hesitate going in a date with you and hey congratulations young man you have just won the heart of that beautiful maiden. Cheers enjoy your new found love nad relationship.