Dear men, 

When starting a relationship please be honest let the foundation of the relationship be an understanding built on trust and loyalty

Do not ever lie about who you are, if you are broke case say you are poor.

Do not promise what you can't fulfill or keep up with promises

Do not turn your first date into an introduction ceremony ... Be simple ..

NB

if you start a relationship on a foundation of luxury and spending please keep up to the appearance of giving her money ....

 when you can't give what she expected trust me she will leave you. Please  promise what you can fulfill . It is not a crime saying your a poor guy believe me if a woman loves you that can't push her away.

on this note let's stop blaming women ....IT'S ALL OUR FAULT BECAUSE MANY MEN ACT MAFIAS ..

DO NOT BE ASHAMED OPENING UP TO A WOMAN YOU LIKE OR LOVE ..... BE SIMPLE AND YOU SHALL BE TREATED WELL .

Promise Made, Promise Kept: How I'm Getting married to my Girlfriend Of 8years

I wil try and be as brief as possible. 

As a growing child, I watched lots of nollywood movies where young lovers who fell in love had to stick with each other through the rough times, suffer together and still end up in marriage. Then other scenarios where the same set of people had to break up due to some unreconcilable differences. Well, I was opportune to experience the former.

I met my fiancee in 2012 in the university while I was in medical school. It was a journey that later graduated into a beautiful lifetime happiness. I met her among other young girls in a fellowship gathering but there was something spectacular about her. Her jovial but shy disposition made her outstanding. I collected her no along side other gals no but kept on calling her. She was very respectful, loyal and caring. She gradually captured my heart and I asked her out after some weeks. We became best of friends. We shared almost everything in common except that I'm an sanguine and she is a melancholy. But we later clicked so fast.

Later I started having issues in medical school. She never left me. She was always there. My failures in medical school started giving me depression, she was also there. She never gave up on me. She would rather stay and help me braid my grown hairs so that I would be happy. She was the only one that understood me. She encouraged to strive on and always believe in myself. I gradually bounced back mentally, wrote my MB exam and passed all my professional exams.

Fast forward to 2020, I had finished medical school as a medical doctor, started my housemanship, proposed to her and she said 'yes'. We will be getting married this Dec, 2020. 

Truly, true love exists but the problem is that people are not ready to work it out. There were times we quarrelled, but we later sorted our issues out. It was not rosy throughout. Most young girls are not ready to stick with one man to build him and build with him. A responsible man will always come back to that loyal babe who has always been there for him to settle down with. You can confirm from 2Baba. 

So find that loyal babe who is ready to build with you, especially when u have a vision and a feasible plan to succeed in life. Trust me, you will find her and find true love.