*HARD FACTS MEN NEED TO KNOW ABOUT THEIR FAMILY  LIVES*

A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can't have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex.

Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.

Men don't equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn't love her. That's why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrate some hidden secrets concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.

For men, sex and love are two different things. But for women, sex and love are one and the same things. For men, sex comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before sex (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having sex with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.

The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn't mean he has stopped loving you. But I can't say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him.

If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason why it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him. That is why it is now encouraged , for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinary criminals or weapons. There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can't detect this as the same woman tend to moan more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.

That's why psychologists discourage women,more than men, from cheating.

Women can't handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.

That's the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect for their husbands and try to avoid sex with them in most times.

Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have sex with their husbands. Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable sex with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife's behavior with regard to sex start changing. But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerates fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated.

Women can't cheat on their partners with people they are not emotionally involved with. They attach emotions to everything. That's why you can't always trust their judgment. When a joke is cracked,most women who laugh are not laughing because the joke is funny but because they like the person who cracked the joke. If they don't like you, no matter how funny your joke may be, they won't laugh, but when a man laughs at a joke, it's because the joke is funny, not because he likes the comedian. Men are not always sentimental and emotionally involved.

Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love. But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same.

I repeat, nearly 100% of cheating women wish their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited sex freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can't wish their wives quick death or divorce. That is why most men can't allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends. Men will always stand for their wives.

A man would cheat but still love and respect his wife, but the opposite is true with cheating women.

Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near.

R.M - Professor of Psychology

Ohio State University - USA

#The Tenant#

Him: Will you marry me?

She: You are not serious, we are both looking for a job and you are proposing, do you think marriage is a joke?

He got a job.

Him: Will you marry me now?

She: So we will marry and be walking everywhere in the same attire on weekends, get a car joor!

He got a car.

Him: Will you marry me now?

She: So we will marry and be sharing that same 2 bedroom flat with your younger brother. 

Noooooo. 

I will like to have my own space. You need to get your own apartment and furnish it, make sure it is three bedroom. One room for guests.

He got a three bedroom apartment.

Will you marry me now?

Can anybody make a move without God? I am praying about it.

It will help if you will ask my parents for consent to seek my hand in marriage so that I can be sure of your intentions.

He goes to her home, meets her family, they had dinner together and he asked for the permission.

Her mother said: It is up to her.

Her father said: Go ahead and ask her.

Him: Will you marry me now?

She: Why are you rushing me, I have things to do. I want to have my masters in the UK.

Him: We have been friends for two years, your family regards me as a son and mine regard you as a daughter. It seems inevitable that we will get married. How else am I to convince you I love you and will like to marry you as soon as possible

Her: I think we need some time apart.

Next day she left home for her elder brother's house.

He was devastated.

His younger brother comes around and said, there is a babe in my office. If I am not engaged, I would have joyfully proposed to her. This is her phone number. She is very intelligent. Chat with her.

He sends her a line

She responds.

He sends another,

She responds.

They chat all day and all night.

Became fast friends but didn't meet face to face for three months.

She wanted to see him but he sees her as a buffer keeping him sane until the love of his life comes to her senses.

They meet.

He liked who she is.

He liked what she represents.

He liked her candour.

It didn't help that she is the opposite of the lady on self imposed exile.

She is encouraging, homely, doesn't complain, is very generous, helpful, doesn't fuss about domestic stuff, a wife...

She lives with her parents.

Her office is very far from home.

She spends hours in traffic everyday.

He offered her his guest room

Just for weekdays.

She goes home for the weekend.

Well...

The "love of his life returned from exile", saw the whole house had a feminine touch.

Saw food in the freezer. Saw the house neat, tidy and well organised.

Said: Is it the tenant in your guest room that has turned herself to a housegirl? I thought you said she is gainfully employed. Some people are just desperate in this world.

He felt hurt by her words.

Next Saturday, tenant told him her parents will like to meet the person she is staying with.

He said ok.

She said Please don't come empty handed. Come with a basket of fruits. My parents will appreciate it.

He said ok.

He bought a basket of fruits.

Went to her house with a friend.

Her parents welcomed him with open arms.

He went to the car and brought in the basket of fruits.

Her mother jumped.

Her father was happy.

They started praying.

"MAY YOU HAVE MALE AND FEMALE CHILDREN IN JESUS NAME"

He was confused.

Her mother said "These fruits are a clear indication of your good intentions towards our daughter. You have behaved like a proper Yoruba boy. We will consult with our people and give you a date your parents can come and meet with us. This is a day of joy.

He felt happy.

He knew he didn't plan to propose.

But well...

He and his friend got home.

The love of his life was waiting by the entrance.

She: Where were you? I have called you several times.

Him: I was driving

Friend: We went for his introduction 

She faints.

Him: Why did you tell her that?

Friend: it is better to tell the truth once and for all.

She after fanning her and pouring water on her head, she revives.

She: Tell me it is not true

Him: Silence

Friend: Looks away.

She: You men are wicked. After all these years. She cried and left.

He married the tenant.

She was in the hospital for many months after. She really fell ill.

He wondered why she was forming when she really loves him that much.

This is is a real story

Both of them are happily married.

He married "tenant"in 2010

She married in 2018.

The irony is

- She never went to the UK

1) The guy she married is still searching for a job.

2) Moved in with her into her 2 bedroom apartment in Mowe, Ogun state.

3) Drives her car.

Moral of the story;

*You can reason yourself out of a good thing**

And...

**You can stumble into a good thing.**

**Good Morning & Have A Lovely Day**