While there’s no one size fits all method for transforming yourself into the super lover, these few strategies will ensure that your partner have the best possible experience during sex.

1. Seduce your woman

Lay a good foundation by preparing her mind for sex. Say the right things to set the mood right even if she’s miles away. Remind her that she’s beautiful and things you can’t wait to do to her body. This puts her in the mood. Some women relish the opportunity to immerse themselves in slow, deliberate seduction, while others are blown away when their partners surprise them with sudden acts of romance and passion. In essence, men should always ensure that they keep their sexual advances romantic and unpredictable.

A healthful relationship is one where both partners have same contributions closer to every aspect, especially decision-making. When the balance tilts on one side, then that partner turns into the more dominating spouse.

In your case, do you feel your wife is not letting you have a say? Or is she manipulating you to do what she wants? If you are not sure, then read on to understand the traits of a controlling wife, its causes and effects, and ways in which you can deal with the situation.

15 Signs Of A Controlling Wife/Girlfriend.

Fulfilling your wife’s demands out of love is one thing and following her orders is another. Here are some signs to help you understand how your wife can be controlling and dominating.

1. She criticizes you too often

First, she has a trouble with the small things you do. Then, she starts finding faults in almost everything you do. She says she is correcting you to ensure you do not make a mistake when in reality, she wants to control everything you do. She criticizes to make you feel conscious and offers advice so that you know what she wants you to do.

2. She wants to know your whereabouts

She calls you several times a day to keep a check on you. She asks questions about your whereabouts and your work. She might even question why you are spending more time at the office or your friend’s place.

3. She snoops on you

When asking you questions does now no longer seem enough, she ends up snooping on you. Following your social media, checking your phone, and keeping a tab on your expenses are a few ways to find out what you did when she is not around.

4. She thinks she is always right

Irrespective of the topic or logic, she is skilled at arguments and knows how to end up winning every discussion or debate you start with her. She does not give up unless you concede and declare that she is right as always.

5. She makes you feel guilty

If you have done something wrong in the past, she uses it to her advantage, especially if you have wronged her in any way. Then, she reminds you of those mistakes to guilt-trip you and give in to her wishes.

6. She makes you feel indebted

A wife is a supporter, capable of bringing a big change in your life. When a controlling wife does something that helps you tremendously, she does it to keep you in her debt. When needed, she reminds you of her favors to make you act as per her wishes.

7. She plays the victim card

It does not matter if she has done something wrong. Her manipulation skills are good enough to convince you that she did it for you or because of you. She knows how to turn the tables and present herself as the victim and make you the villain.

8. She keeps you away from family and friends

Did you notice that you have been meeting your family and friends a lot less than before? Your wife probably blocks you from seeing others. She meets her folks and friends whenever she wants, but you do not get to go out as she somehow manages to control your contact with them.

9. She feels jealous

She fears losing you. So strong is her insecurity that she becomes jealous of every woman you talk to. In fact, jealousy is one of the reasons why she tries to control your interaction with others so that you stay with her only.

10. She is obsessive

Have you ever opposed something strongly but eventually gave in because your wife wouldn’t budge? A controlling wife has to have what she wants or she will make life tough for you. So she tries every tactic to get what she wants from you.

11. She threatens you

When everything else fails, she threatens you with serious consequences. She gives you an ultimatum to do something, or you have to face some unpleasant situation.

12. She has a foul temper

Point out her mistake, and she gets into a screaming fit. Tell her you can’t do something that she wants, she will abuse you and curse you for being negligent towards her. Her anger gets the better of her, and you fear her reaction to avoid an argument.

13. She brags about herself

One way to control you is to make you feel inferior to her, so she brags about her family background or achievements. She does this to make you feel lucky to have her in your life so that you feel obligated to please her.

14. She does not respect your privacy

Just because you are married, it does not mean you have no right to personal space or privacy. But a controlling wife denies you that. She does not believe in giving you some time by yourself. She doesn’t want you to stray, so she tries to keep you under her thumb.

15. She treats your rights as favors

A controlling wife offers you basic love and respect only if you are willing to do her bidding. Be it a good meal or some other help, you get it only if you do something in return for her, like buy her something expensive or run an errand for her. Her love is conditional and hardly ever free.

Has your wife/ girlfriend tried to controlled  you before? How did you handle the issue? Let us know in comment section below.