He has been very unlucky up until this point

In this case, every woman that he has ever met, that he has really liked already had a boyfriend or a husband. He has really bad luck when it comes to finding single attractive women.  Yet, he can change that. 

Lately, he hasn’t been meeting many new, single women that he finds attractive

Imagine this… A guy wants to be able to get himself a girlfriend. He works in an office and he goes to work on Monday to Friday. On Friday nights, he sometimes goes for after-work drinks with coworkers and he usually just sticks within his group or talks to his coworkers. He doesn’t really venture out to talk to other women at the bar. Then on the weekends, he may sometimes catch up with his friends who already have a girlfriend and he may not like any of the remaining single women in his social circle. They may not be attractive to him. He may like his friend’s girlfriend, or he may like a girl at work and find her very attractive, but she’s already engaged, got a boyfriend or is married. So, as he goes through that cycle of his everyday life and week-to-week life, he doesn’t meet many new, single women and get to know them enough to know that he really likes them. The reason I say that is that, in many cases, when a guy feels as though all the good women are taken, he has gotten to know some women via his social circle or work who already have a boyfriend or husband.

He has been meeting some attractive women who are single, but he doesn’t really know how to attract them and pick them up

As a result, single women that he likes may like him as a person or see him as a nice guy, but they won’t really be interested in anything s3xual, or in being his girlfriend.  So, if he talks to a woman like that and asks for her phone number, she might say something like, â€œSorry, I have a boyfriend.” Many women will say something like that to hopefully let a guy down gently. She doesn’t want to say, â€œNo, I am not interested in you. I wouldn’t want to be with you. I’m not attracted to you,” and so on. Instead, she uses the excuse of, â€œSorry, I have a boyfriend.” If that happens to a guy on a number of occasions, he may start to believe that all of the women he really likes already have a boyfriend. In almost all cases, though, what he is missing is the ability to attract women as he talks to them. When you know how to attract women as you talk to them and those women are single, that’s when you stop hearing, â€œSorry, I have a boyfriend” as an excuse to end the interaction, or to let you down gently. Suddenly, many of the single women you meet like you in a s3xual and romantic way and you begin to enjoy your choice of women or you get yourself a girlfriend and settle down. As mentioned, I’ll give you an example of what to say to attract a woman as you talk to her later in the video. For now, another common reason why a guy might feel as though all the women he likes already have a boyfriend is that…

He goes through his everyday life assuming that all pretty women must already have a boyfriend

“60% of unmarried relationships break up within 2 months and 70% end within 1 year.” Source: Social Science Data Collection. Stanford University, California The reality is that most new relationships don’t work. They don’t last, which results in men becoming single again and women becoming single again. When you go into a cafe to order a coffee or some food, the barista may be single. When you’re walking through the park and you see a woman with her dog, she may be single. When you’re at a bar, most of the women there are going to be single. Yet, in today’s world, a lot of guys tend to think about dating apps and how that is interfering with their dating life and reducing their chances with women. To put it into perspective for you, imagine a woman using a dating app in a big city, for example. Tens of thousands of guys have swiped on her hoping to get a match. Imagine now that she matches up with a hundred of those guys and they start texting her day and night. Most guys who a woman will match up with on a dating app, will start texting her and texting her and texting her and it becomes way too much to manage. So, what happens for a lot of women, is that they just use dating apps as a source of validation.

He only feels comfortable being himself around women who are taken

So, if he’s talking to his friend’s girlfriend or wife, then he can feel comfortable because there’s no pressure on him. He’s not trying to hit on her. He’s just hanging out, being himself and talking to her. There’s no intention there to pick her up, so he behaves like himself. He’s being himself around her. He’s being the cool, interesting guy that he is. Yet, when he’s around an attractive girl, an attractive woman that he really likes, then, oh, things suddenly change. Suddenly he becomes more polite, more nice, more reserved, more hesitant than he is or wants to be. The cool, interesting side of him is hidden... So, if you saw a woman in the park with her dog and you found her attractive and she was sitting down with her dog, or she was walking slowly, or just hanging out in the park with her dog, you can walk over and say something like this to her. “Hey, cute dog. It’s even cuter than its owner.” Pause, smile and add, â€œJust kidding. It’s only a little bit cuter than it’s owner. Hey, I’m Dan, by the way. I was just walking past and I saw you with your dog and I thought, oh cool dog. I’ll come over and say hello. What’s your dog’s name? Maxine. How are you doing little lady? How about you? What’s your name? Jenny. Hello, nice to meet you. Can your dog do any tricks? What? You haven’t taught her any tricks? Come on. She’s got to be able to do backflips and things like that.” You simply keep a conversation going with her.

be clueless.

If you are a guy looking for a woman, take note of some of the things a lady will notice or look for when trying to find a good man.

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Ladies, have standards and do not just look for someone for the sake of settling and simply having a companion. Here we go:

What are the first things girls look for in guys?

How put together is his appearance?

First off, a girl will judge a guy by his appearance, but it is not just good looks. It is how well he is put together that she is looking at. If a guy is too put together with his appearance, it is a huge red flag, that he is high maintenance. Girls like to look nice too, but if she has to feel like she has to keep up with her guy all the time in the looks department, it can be hard. He will always be wondering if his shirt is tucked in evenly, if his collar is straight, or if his pants make his rear look fat. That is what women do — not men. Also note though that if a guy is dressed too sloppy, it just means he does not care about his appearance. While the outer shell of a person only tells part of the story, it can mean that a guy slacks off on a lot of other things in life too. His shoes might be untied, or he might show up to a special occasion in a t-shirt. This is every woman’s nightmare. A girl wants to be proud of her man rather than embarrassed.

2. How well versed is he?

Everything out of his mouth does not have to be a million dollar word with five syllables. However, if he talks sloppy with a lot of slang or curses like a sailor, she will not like it. A man’s method of speaking as well as his manners can say a lot about him. Of course, most women think that a good accent is s*xy, whether it is a southern drawl or a cute British accent. What a woman really wants is a guy she can talk to like she is human. A conversation is essential to a good relationship, and that is one of the first things she will look for. How easy is he to talk to? It might be a struggle, and that could get old and boring after a while. He needs to pick up his part of the conversation too.

3. What are his hobbies or interests?

Guys either love their hobbies and interests and can share them with his girl, without being pushy, or he can be completely obsessed by them and practically force her to participate or watch while he does. Is he a video gamer and she likes to sit and watch or play along? That is great! Or is he a NASCAR “junkie” who knows every stat about every player and to her it is just a bunch of cars driving around in circles and she is bored, but he does not even try to compromise? That is so not cool. Relationships are “give and take” – compromise is essential. This will become completely noticeable after a really good conversation. If there is no genuine conversation between the two of you, then it is likely not ever going to happen or be a happy one if either chooses to settle.

4. What are his imperfections?

She will take note of a cute little scar above his eyebrow, and it could be a good story about how he got that. She might even take notice of a freckle that is a little bit darker on the side of his cheek. She sees those tiny imperfections as adorable whether or not he hates them or is insecure about them. Even the little things are memorable.

5. What does he do that is so cute?

This has nothing to do necessarily with overall looks. A girl looks at a guy and sometimes notices his lopsided grin with one deep dimple in his cheek. Or she might notice that when he laughs, he tilts his head back completely. He may talk lovingly about his mom or tell about the silly days he spent in his college dorm. She loves those little quirks and finds them quite compelling.

6. How manly is he?

Ladies do not always like macho men. That is not the point here. She is looking for a guy who practices chivalry because it is not dead and opens doors, walks her to the door, or texts her just to say he made it home safely. Sometimes ladies like a little aggression in their man. It doesn’t mean she is looking for someone who is ready to start a bar fight, but instead, someone who is a bit assertive rather than seeming to act like a doormat.

7. How interesting is he?

Conversation, again, is a huge deal breaker. He may talk for hours about something but somehow makes it intriguing. It might be something she knows nothing about but is interested in. She does not want him to ramble but include her in the conversation. Questions that end with simple ‘yes’ or ‘no’ answers will get old fast. Talk to each other about new things. People always have something to say even if it is a funny story about something in the past. Sometimes women like to learn a little bit about something they do not know much about. However, when she starts to look glazed over and bored, it is time for him to switch to something else. He does not have to be that guy who has been on African safaris, crocodile hunting in the Outback, or backpacks throughout Europe to be interesting.

All of these seven things a girl looks for in a guy can help her determine, whether or not, a guy is someone who will be compatible with her. Generally, it can help her determine a man’s personality. Women like to feel like they can relate to others and connect on many different levels whether it just be about last night’s big baseball game (and you are both fans) or if you are discussing the meaning of life. Conversation and communication have to be there, or it more than likely will not work. Most of all, it takes both people just being themselves.