I met a guy last two years...we HV been friends for a while now, almost leading to a relationship....along the line I noticed that I fell deeply in love with this guy but don't think he loves me deeply as I do,(don't know whether he doesn't express love though)....

Two days ago, a thought came to me to play a prank on this so called guy to know if he really values me which he finds difficult to express or not

So, I sent him a text ,told him that it's over between us,he should not call me again ND stuff like that(remember it was a prank on),,I was codedly waiting for his reaction....to my greatest surprise,he never did till this day so I was kinda asking myself,does this guy really value the thing we shared,cos if he do,he will definitely call back to ask questions or fight for the so called relationship

I did this cos considering his past life,I wasn't so sure of him especially him being so friendly with girls

My question:

1.did i overstep my boundaries by playing that prank???

2.do you think he really care about this relationship in the sense that he never called back???

3.do you think I should give him some time to see his reaction since it happened two days ago

Seriously,am confused ND don't know what to do😢😢😢

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  I feel like I'm about to lose something important and I wanna be blunt to get the advice I really need. Okay I've had this guy in my life for sometime and we've been going fine. Things were going smoothly until he started cheating and doing all sorts of things even to my face and claimed it's because he could not keep up with my lifestyle (prostitution) Circumstances, hardship and naivety pushed me into this and yes I know it's not good. I told him of my early sexual abuses that turned my heart against men and bluntly told him I wasn't interested (I'd never had a boyfriend before then) told him I didn't wanna hurt him but he promised he was gonna stick around and see me change, we agreed and started a contract relationship. However it appeared he couldn't keep up with my outings (which I tried as much as I could to keep discreet to avoid hurting him too much) so he became an entirely different person and unfortunately then I was already in love. He talked me into having an abortion for him and I did, though he wasn't having money he was supportive. (Yes and I knew this guy when he just graduated from school and had nothing, no house, plenty bills and was a big liability. I spent a lot on him then, paying off his school bills and getting a new house, I got him his current job after he refused so many others) When I couldn't bear it anymore I broke up but it was so difficult for me because I'd grown to love him. I kept crying and begging everyone to talk to him but he refused till the love died down(I discovered I was pregnant a second time and when my younger sister told him, he said in quote "you know what to do now, just get rid of it" It was heartbreaking and I almost died, he didn't give me a dime and when I passed out one night out of loss of excess blood, he was among those called but he didn't come. My mum came all the way from Delta to Edo to pick me, called him severally to come see her and me too but he bluntly refused) I moved on and that was when he came back and started begging, he begged and we got back again but I no longer feel much love for him, he has been very very loving and passionate about me. I'm scared that he may have truly changed and if I leave I may not find that love again. I don't know what to do, I love him but each time I remember that he left me to die with his child and other things, hate will fill my heart. I've stopped that shit, I wish I can help myself. Help me please