Successful people are concerned secretive. They hardly or don't disclose their secrets to people. However, it is important you keep some things to yourself if you really want to go far in life. "If you want to go fast in life, walk alone, but if you want to go far in life, walk with people." You shouldn't just walk with people, know the kind of people you want to walk with, if you don't want to be stabbed from behind. 

Some people you have as friends today, can later turn back and be your enemies tomorrow. That is why it is very important for you to keep some secrets to yourself so that it will not be used against you in the future.

Some people will stoop low to your level at any cost just to get some important information and know your secrets. You don't know people that have good intentions towards you, therefore keeping secrets about your personal life will help you a lot.

I have been able to come up with 10 secrets you should keep to yourself. Below are the list:

1. Your progress.

It is very important you keep this as a secret to yourself and don't disclose it to anyone. Your progress in life shouldn't be something you tell to people, let your progress speaks itself. If you know how this has caused a lot of harm than good to some people, some life had been lost due to the inability of them to keep their progress as a secret to themselves. Don't make this mistake, keep this to yourself.

2. Your movements.

Your whereabouts shouldn't be something people know about, it should be a top secrets to you and others involved. If your movements is known, it can be used against you and unexpected thing can happen. Your friends don't have the right to know about how you move, keep it confidential. 

3. Family problem.

No family is perfect, conflicts arises, there is discrepancy and so on in every family. Don't be dumb to share what is going on in your family to other people. You can be misled in this process. Some people are good at using your problems against you, and they will use them to make things worse in your family than to help you solve them.

4. Past downfall.

Everyone has that dark past. The past is past, never give a chance for anyone to use it against you by sharing it with them. Forget about your past, keep it has a secrets from people who doesn't deserve to know it. 

5. Passwords.

It would be extremely naive to give away your passwords, codes and pin to others. It is your privacy. Trust nobody, keep your details to yourself. As there are a lot of scammers all over now, it is very important you make your passwords very secretive. Don't make this mistake, if your account is hacked and your life saving is been taken, you'll have to start from the bottom again. Therefore, make sure that your passwords, codes and pin numbers are kept very safe and beyond the reach of anybody.

6. Your income.

Money is never something to discuss in public. Some people kill for money, die for money, so keep it to yourself. Friends betrays each other because of money. You don't know the current financial status of your friends, revealing yours can be very dangerous for you. Therefore, keep your income as a secret to yourself.

7. Goals for the future.

Keeping your future goals to yourself even gives you more drives to attain them more quickly. Sharing them with people can even lead to a delay, or you can be even be mislead. It is very important you keep this as a secret to yourself.

8. Your marriage affairs.

Your marriage is something that needs to be kept as a secret. People are so wicked to the extent that their wickedness has no limit. Therefore, don't endanger your marriage life, unless you want it to be over.

9. Your weakness.

Be careful of people who you share your weakness with. Some people can't wait for the opportunity to use them against you. 

Your weakness is a personal thing that only you should know, don't disclose it to others. Trust nobody, trust is for the weak. 

10. Your Plans.

However, it is good to reveal your plans to some people, and also it is a bad thing to do. The best thing to do is to have a back up, people can disappoint you anytime. Having a backup will keep your back from touching the ground. 

These things are to be kept as a secrets if you want to succeed in life. It is not easy, but if you're determined, you'll surely get there. Be careful of people.

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Many Christians don’t understand the Love of God, and the Love He has for humanity. About 3 years ago I lost my cousin I dearly loved, he was my good friend and basically we grew up together so close. He was very wayward, and I would say he was a part time Christian if there is such. You know those type of Christians that only remember God when they need something or when they go to church? Yea that was him, but I loved him regardless. 

Before he died he got very sick, he was hospitalized for like 2 weeks, and he was going to be transferred to my town, a hospital near where I was. During that time I was praying for him, praying that God heals him and gives him a second chance. That’s when God spoke to me and said these words, “If I heal him, he’s going to back to his old reckless lifestyle, and he will die in that state and end up in Hell. But right now in his infirmity, he’s crying to Me asking for forgiveness, and I have forgiven him. If he dies now he’s coming to Me. What should I do? Should I heal him and let him live or let him die and come to Me?” 

I’ve answered Questions before, but this was one of the hardest questions I’ve ever had to answer. Sometimes God’s Love goes beyond our capacity to understand things, or why certain things happen. I knew, I couldn’t say Heal him Father, because I knew my cousin would really go back to his lifestyle because this was the second time he was bedridden in his life, and he never changed after getting better the last time. 

So I said, it’s ok Lord take him. I remember he was finally transferred to the hospital near where I was, and I went to see him. When I got there I was told he’s not in the hospital record system, the person I’m looking for is not here. I went back home with my family wondering if we got the wrong information of where he was. When we got home his mom arrived, and told us she just came from seeing him. We told her we were turned back, they told us he’s not there. 

So we went with his mom and he was in the record system this time. Upon seeing him, I was weeping inside. He could not talk, he was in a bad state. But he opened his eyes at our arrival and we made a prayer with him, and when he saw me, he held my hand, and squeezed it. Immediately when he did that, I saw a Vision of two Angels coming through the roof of the hospital, and I saw him leaving with the Angels and I called him saying where are you going? And he replied, I have to go, I will see you again one day. The vision ended. I cried. Then he let go of my hand and fell asleep. 

We all left the hospital thinking he was sleeping as he was still breathing, but when we got home we received a call that he just passed away. Friends why am I sharing this with you? I want you to see that God’s love works in ways we might not understand! Yet we should always be thankful for everything we experience, or things God allows us to experience. It’s all out of Love. All things are working together for your Good! Never stop praying for your unsaved family members and relatives, God will give them a second chance. The second chance might not be a second chance in this life, but a chance to be with Him forever! 

- Wiseman