Tough love is an expression used when someone treats another person harshly or sternly with the intent to help them in the long run. 

 

The golden thread of a highly successful and meaningful life is self-discipline. Discipline allows you to do all those things you know in your heart you should do but never feel like doing. Without self-discipline, you will not set clear goals, manage your time effectively, treat people well, persist through the tough times, care for your health or think positive thoughts.

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I call the habit of self-discipline “Tough Love” because getting tough with yourself is actually a very loving gesture. By being stricter with yourself, you will begin to live life more deliberately, on your own terms rather than simply reacting to life the way a leaf floating in a stream drifts according to the flow of the current on a particular day. As I teach in one of my seminars, the tougher you are on yourself, the easier life will be on you. 

 

The quality of your life ultimately is shaped by the quality of your choices and decisions, ones that range from the career you choose to pursue to the books you read, the time that you wake up every morning and the thoughts you think during the hours of your days. 

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When you consistently flex your willpower by making those choices that you know are the right ones (rather than the easy ones), you take back control of your life. Effective, fulfilled people do not spend their time doing what is most convenient

and comfortable. 

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have the courage to listen to their hearts and to do the wise thing. This habit is what makes them great.

“The successful person has the habit of doing the things failures don’t like

to do,” remarked essayist and thinker E. M. Gray. “They don’t like doing them

either, necessarily. But their disliking is subordinated to the strength of their

purpose.” 

 

The nineteenth-century English writer Thomas Henry Huxley arrived at a similar conclusion, noting: “Perhaps the most valuable result of all education is the ability to make yourself do the thing you have to do, when it ought to be done, whether you like it or not.” And Aristotle made this point of wisdom in yet another way: “Whatever we learn to do, we learn by actually doing it: men come

to be builders, for instance, by building, and harp players, by playing the harp. 

 

In the same way, by doing just acts we come to be just; by doing self-controlled acts, we come to be self-controlled; and by doing brave acts, we come to be

brave.”

 
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When she cannot cook and always prefer to eat out.

 

This kind of ladies do not know how to cook delicious meal and always prefer to eat out, as in going to eatery and she never make any attempt to improve. Such a lady should not think about marriage at all because you cannot expect your husband to cook when he returns from work, except when necessary like during pregnancy period and health issues.

Just as no woman will like to settle down with a jobless and lazy man, so likewise no man will like to marry a lady who does not know how to prepare meals that will arouse his appetite. The way to a man's heart is his stomach.

 

If a man agrees to marry a lady who does not know how to cook out of love, it will eventually come to a point when love will not be able to satisfy the stomach and things will start to fall apart. Love can only be felt but cannot be eaten.