This is because it can be hard to live with different people who have different approach to life.

The best way to handle neighbours like this is to do the following:

Create Boundaries Early: Once you notice the neighbour is annoying and passing boundaries it is better to create boundry early so they know when to draw the line.

 

Talk To Them On How Thier Action Is Affecting You: sometimes we just assume they know how third action is affecting us without telling them it is best to be plain and tell them the truth in the nicest way possible and if it doesn't work you can involve a third party or maybe the landlord bit don't expect just keep quiet about it

 

Always Ignore Little Things: when you pay attention to every little thing they do it would affect you and make you unhappy except it is something important you can't ignore 

 

This last one can be hard but I will say this try and be understanding I know it can be hard but it's possible especially if it is something your neighbor cannot control like a baby crying in the night trying to accommodate things you know are genuinely a mistake would help you both in the long run when you also need thier help but I'd you notice that they are doing it on purpose it is better to react and say your mind.

 

These few points are just to help you and they may not be enough but always remember that people can be complicated and sometimes the way they behave may not have to do with you maybe what they are going through in thier life, always be happy and don't let people's action affect you. Wish you the best.

One thing we should know about criticism is to understand where it is coming from, who the person is, if the person has your best interest, the timing. you should always know that your self worth does not depend on other people's words and that you are a great person but they are times that people's words or criticism can save is a lot of trouble. examples are:

When we are making a major decision: sometimes a friend's word of advice can save you from a lot of trouble when making a major decision, sometimes it may seem harsh but it's better to look at the brightest side of it.

When you are working on a project: when you are working on a project you need people's feedback to know if you are doing a good job and advice from critics can save you a lot of stress.

How To deal with Criticisms.

Don't get Emotional: if the criticism is from a good place and you know the person cares, it's better to not get emotional or angry just look at the bright side and use the criticism to your advantage. Our emotions are not always right and dwelling on the emotion rather than taking action will not be to your own advantage.

Don't dwell on the negative words: If negative words were used on you, it is better to ignore it and know that you are much better than that.

Don't listen to every Criticism: This is because some criticism can be from a place of envy and jealousy, this can affect your mental health so it's better to ignore any negative criticism that is not for your own good. Learn to identify when the Criticism is good for you and beneficial.

Don't Put your self under Pressure because of Criticism: It is important to move at your own pace and it is good to listen to criticism but when you find yourself getting under pressure because of people's words it is best to take a break and not listen to what everyone is saying, take only the important one and move on.

Criticisms can be at our own advantage but always know when to listen to them and if it is for your own good. Have a great day.