It is good to be positive about what the new year has in store for us and not feel anxious or scared.

You can start by doing what you haven't been doing to keep you going this new year

1) meditation: meditation keeps your mind in check and helps you think of what you are doing, keeps you in track from doing the wrong thing and evaluate your steps.

2) Daily exercise: Daily exercise keeps you fit and healthy so that you won't be under stress 

3) Going on a vacation: going in a vacation can help clear your mind and put things in perspective. It doesn't have to be an expensive place.

4) Have a routine: have a routine everyday can help you so you don't spend time doing what will waste your time.

5) Belong to a volunteer group : this will help you appreciate life more.

Do not repeat things you did before that did not give you result.

6) Surround yourself with good people: soround yourself with people that are good and will bring positive energy to your life.

This is because it can be hard to live with different people who have different approach to life.

The best way to handle neighbours like this is to do the following:

Create Boundaries Early: Once you notice the neighbour is annoying and passing boundaries it is better to create boundry early so they know when to draw the line.

 

Talk To Them On How Thier Action Is Affecting You: sometimes we just assume they know how third action is affecting us without telling them it is best to be plain and tell them the truth in the nicest way possible and if it doesn't work you can involve a third party or maybe the landlord bit don't expect just keep quiet about it

 

Always Ignore Little Things: when you pay attention to every little thing they do it would affect you and make you unhappy except it is something important you can't ignore 

 

This last one can be hard but I will say this try and be understanding I know it can be hard but it's possible especially if it is something your neighbor cannot control like a baby crying in the night trying to accommodate things you know are genuinely a mistake would help you both in the long run when you also need thier help but I'd you notice that they are doing it on purpose it is better to react and say your mind.

 

These few points are just to help you and they may not be enough but always remember that people can be complicated and sometimes the way they behave may not have to do with you maybe what they are going through in thier life, always be happy and don't let people's action affect you. Wish you the best.