WHY SOME GUYS DUMP THEIR GIRL FRIEND WHEN THE GOING GETS BETTER. (Secrets reviewed)

Does love exist ?. To me love exist but they're certain sacrificial commitment that defines its existence. In my research so far, love exist only when money is involved though some ladies who see potentials they need in a man goes for him at all cost. And this are the only people that worth marrying.

However, Relationship is sweet if the both party deem it sacrosanct to make it flourish.

And there is no single relationship on earth that does not have its troubles, challenges, trials, disappointments and betrayal. It all depends on a decision of the both party. Don't mind some married men that posts their photo enjoying themselves with their hubby here on Facebook. If they tell you what they're passing through in their various home, you will even beat your chest and say God thank you for the kind of partner you gave me.

My anchor point as regards to this issue centred on WHY MANY GUYS DO DUMP THEIR FEMALE COUNTERPART  immediately they reach the level they want financially. 

While on a DATE with opposite sex, men set a particular target of what they want in a relationship, some guys will come to strike and run away and others will come to stay. It all depends on what one wants. But majority of we guys doesn't mean harm until we see opposite of our expectations. We Don't go for beauty only, they're two basic things that men doesn't play with in a woman...but I won't unveil that particular two things.

 Those who came to stay will painstakingly checkmate every activities of his girl and gets jealous of every decision his woman take, do to the fear of loosing her or the fear of unknown. In this stage, they're many things that are involved in it. From the day your man friend stopped checking your activities or stopped complaining on your lackadaisical attitudes towards life, note it that that's the day his  love over your started dying off. 

If a lady act strange and her man ignore it, count yourself out of his life. You're just a sex mate from the day he stopped getting jealous over everything you do. But over jealous is a crime and threat to humanity.

 Every responsible man who mean well to her woman gets jealous of who he wants to settle down with. If you're a lady that's promiscuous and it has happened that you want to settle down for good, they're things you must avoid while you're with the man that wants to settle With you. 

Sister,  When calls enter your phone, don't ignore it while you're with him. From the moment you started ignoring call before your man, we men takes it that  the callers is your side guy, such bridges the rule of trust in a relationship. And you know it that trust is a grand master of love.

There is a count charge on that when he finally wants to settle. A man who knows what he wants cross examines every girls he has come in contact with both concubines and  go for one. If you're the type that puts your phone in a flight mode while you're in a Man's house, note it that he will not ask you to turn it on. People of my type doesn't ask a lady to go against her will. We assumes its the way you do it as a flirt. Immediately you turn a flirt in the eyes of your man,your relationship has started leaking like a broken pipe bone water.  Take note.

Challenges only vary in degree and the time of their occurrence. 

But how we manage our relationship with others matters a lot.

GET THIS TO YOUR BRAIN, some relationship crashes from the day you started unleashing all the ups and down you have been into in a relationship with others. Telling a guy how many men you've dated before him and how they treated you is one of the problems that delays some ladies in their home.  Stop telling a guy how someone pushed you to abort a child while you were pregnant for him. A running mouth HAS CLOSED MANY RELATIONSHIP today. 

Allow a guy to build Empire with you first before voicing out all you have in mind if the need be. Some men asks a girl about her past relationship just to use it as a point on a dismissal day. Guide your tongue and know the different between INFATUATION AND LOVE. Remember, I didn't say you should not disclose anything with your man but they're things that are better kept unsaid. 

Love doesn't cover all. Those that says that love "covereth"all things are chronic liars. They're sins that love doesn't cover. If you keep telling your new guy about your expired guy and how you loved him, you're endangering the relationship you're into except you don't want the relationship to hold water. When the deal day comes, he will be afraid of your past. Be warned and stay focus in your relationship life.

More so, With a complete sense of entitlement, a high level of anger or temperament could lead to an unforgiving crime, a girl who cannot control her anger can not settle with anyone. When you get mad with a guy and he tries to quench the fire  but you wish to make it stay some days before you settle with him, it shows that tomorrow you will join the STABBING GANGS. We forbid such people. 

Don't allow your past life to ruin your present relationship. 

So, We must all embrace a culture of tolerance to avoid deep confrontation where issues can be resolved with understanding and right compromises. But when resolution is not possible, either party can take a walk to avoid the untold and unforeseen end.

Men settle down with who they found peace with.

Systematically, the worst form of it all is when a guy asked a lady  out and she accepted to be his friend and attached a critical condition with a note that the guy cannot satisfy her financial need and deep inside her she loves the guy but because of her past relationship and the financial level of the guy, you don't want to accept him with your full mind thereby acting strange and playing double standard (Jagaban). You keep posting the guy until he gets tired of everything about you... You should know that every guy knows when you're using his brain to shine. No man settles with a lady who puts one of her leg inside water and one on the dry land. 

 Of a truth, we need God to excel in every relationship and all our doings. Its not by muscle though. 

Las las guys sticks to the lady who don't have questionable character, a lady he confirms to be reliable, dependable and faithful to him on the last day. So check yourself, did you worth keeping as a wife when your boy friend hammer  ? 

I wrote as spirit directs and my ladies don't take this write-ups for granted.

NEXT UPDATE WILL BE ANCHORED ON WHY SOME LADIES ARE TOO CONFUSED WHEN THEY WANT TO SETTLE DOWN... STAY TUNED. 

DON'T FAIL TO ASK QUESTION IF THERE IS ANY.

Temitope Balogun Joshua better known as TB Joshua is the founder of The Synagogue, Church of All Nations which airs on Emmanuel TV in Lagos.

It is unusual to hear that someone has charmed a man of God but in this case, it’s actually love. It is his beautiful wife, Evelyn Joshua. She was born on 17th December, 1968 and she hails from a native of Okala Okpuno in Oshimili North LGA of Delta State.

Evelyn’s charisma, simplicity, and unique personality has been a great charm on her husband when they first met. Evelyn in an interview disclosed that TB Joshua proposed to her 45 minutes after they met. She said;

“Many years ago, I visited a sister somewhere at Ikotun-Egbe, and, then they were talking about a particular man, a prophet to be precise. It was a kind of meeting to be precise. And it’s like everybody in that gathering, or at least half of the people in the room, had actually visited him”.

“So, they were saying a lot of good things about him. I was thrilled. At the end of the whole thing, I called a sister outside and asked whether she could take me to the prophet. I didn’t ask to go there out of curiosity. I actually needed a guide at that point in time”.

“And before then, I had not told him anything about myself, we were just looking at each other until he, at a time, wrote my name on the piece of paper. So, we started talking. He told me a lot of things about myself, both things that I knew, and those that I never knew”.

“I was shocked. He told me about my family, about my past, my present and my future. Altogether, we spent about 45 minutes. At the end of the whole thing, he spoke to me in Yoruba language and said:

“Joo ma binu o. Ma ro pe bi mo se nba gbogbo eniyan ti o ba wa s’odo mi soro ni eleyi o. Mi o ni ale, mi o dee fee ni ale. Sugbon, se oo fe mi?

(Which in Translation means: “Please, don’t be annoyed. Don’t think this is how I talk to everyone that comes to me. I don’t have a concubine, and I don’t want to have a concubine. But can you marry me?)

“Just like that. It was strange, but that gives us an insight into what the Scripture says that the Spirit testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. I think that was it. That was how I met him. Some months later, I asked him why he thought it was right seeing a lady for the first time and going on to propose to her. He said he had seen me four days before that very day”.

Evelyn and T.B Joshua tied the knot in 1990 and are blessed with 3 children.

The wonderful woman has always helped her husband in her Godly ministry in matters of counseling and meetings where and whenever her husband is unavailable.