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13 Things You Should Give Up If You Want To Be Successful
~4.9 mins read
“On your last day on earth, the person you became will meet the
person you could have become.†— Anonymous
Sometimes, to become successful and get closer to the
person we can become, we don’t need to add more things —
we need to give up on some of them.
There are certain things that are universal, which will make
you successful if you give up on them, even though each
one of us could have a different definition of success.
You can give up on some of them today, while it might take
a bit longer to give up on others.
1. Give Up On The Unhealthy Lifestyle
“Take care of your body. It’s the only place you have to
live.†— Jim Rohn
If you want to achieve anything in life, everything starts
here. First you have to take care of your health, and there
are only two things you need to keep in mind:
1. Healthy Diet
2. Physical Activity
Small steps, but you will thank yourself one day.
2. Give Up The Short-term Mindset
“You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.â€
— Mae West
Successful people set long-term goals, and they know these
aims are merely the result of short-term habits that they
need to do every day.
These healthy habits shouldn’t be something you do; they
should be something you embody.
There is a difference between: “Working out to get a
summer body†and “Working out because that’s who you
are.â€
3. Give Up On Playing Small
“Your playing small does not serve the world. There is
nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people
will not feel insecure around you. We are all meant to
shine, as children do. It is not just in some of us; it is in
everyone, and as we let our light shine, we unconsciously
give others permission to do the same. As we are liberated
from our fear, our presence automatically liberates others.â€
- Marianne Williamson
If you never try and take great opportunities, or allow your
dreams to become realities, you will never unleash your true
potential.
And the world will never benefit from what you could have
achieved.
So voice your ideas, don’t be afraid to fail, and certainly
don’t be afraid to succeed.
4. Give Up Your Excuses
“It’s not about the cards you’re dealt, but how you play the
hand.â€
― Randy Pausch, The Last Lecture
Successful people know that they are responsible for their
life, no matter their starting point, weaknesses, and past
failures.
Realising that you are responsible for what happens next in
your life is both frightening and exciting.
And when you do, that becomes the only way you can
become successful, because excuses limit and prevent us
from growing personally and professionally.
Own your life; no one else will.
5. Give Up The Fixed Mindset
“The future belongs to those who learn more skills and
combine them in creative ways.†― Robert Greene, Mastery
People with a fixed mindset think their intelligence or talents
are simply fixed traits, and that talent alone leads to
success — without hard work. They’re wrong.
Successful people know this. They invest an immense
amount of time on a daily basis to develop a growth
mindset, acquire new knowledge, learn new skills and
change their perception so that it can benefit their lives.
Remember, who you are today, it’s not who you have to be
tomorrow.
6. Give Up Believing In The “Magic Bullet.â€
“Every day, in every way, I’m getting better and better†—
Émile Coué
Overnight success is a myth.
Successful people know that making small continual
improvement every day will be compounded over time, and
give them desirable results.
That is why you should plan for the future, but focus on the
day that’s ahead of you, and improve just 1% every day.
7. Give Up Your Perfectionism
“Shipping beats perfection.†— Khan Academy’s
Development Mantra
Nothing will ever be perfect, no matter how much we try.
Fear of failure (or even fear of success) often prevents us
from taking an action and putting our creation out there in
the world. But a lot of opportunities will be lost if we wait for
the things to be right.
So “ship,†and then improve (that 1%).
8. Give Up Multi-tasking
“You will never reach your destination if you stop and
throw stones at every dog that barks.†― Winston S.
Churchill
Successful people know this. That’s why they choose one
thing and then beat it into submission. No matter what it is
— a business idea, a conversation, or a workout.
Being fully present and committed to one task, is
indispensable.
9. Give Up Your Need to Control Everything
“Some things are up to us, and some things are not up to
us.†— Epictetus, Stoic philosopher
Differentiating these two is important.
Detach from the things you cannot control, and focus on the
ones you can, and know that sometimes, the only thing you
will be able to control is your attitude towards something.
Remember, nobody can be frustrated while saying
“Bubbles†in an angry voice.
10. Give Up On Saying YES To Things That Don’t Support
Your Goals
“He who would accomplish little must sacrifice little; he
who would achieve much must sacrifice much; he who
would attain highly must sacrifice greatly.†— James Allen
Successful people know that in order to accomplish their
goals, they will have to say NO to certain tasks, activities,
and demands from their friends, family, and colleagues.
In the short-term, you might sacrifice a bit of instant
gratification, but when your goals come to fruition, it will all
be worth it.
11. Give Up The Toxic People
“You are the average of the five people you spend the most
time with.â€
― Jim Rohn
People we spend the most time with, add up to who we
become.
There are people who are less accomplished in their
personal and professional life, and there are people who are
more accomplished than us. If you spend time with those
who are behind you, your average will go down, and with it,
your success.
But if you spend time with people who are more
accomplished than you, no matter how challenging that
might be, you will become more successful.
Take a look at around you, and see if you need to make any
changes.
12. Give Up Your Need To Be Liked
“The only way to avoid pissing people off is to do nothing
important.†— Oliver Emberton
Think of yourself as a market niche.
There will be a lot of people who like that niche, and there
will be individuals who don’t. And no matter what you do,
you won’t be able to make the entire market like you.
This is entirely natural, and there’s no need to justify
yourself.
The only thing you can do is to remain authentic, improve
and provide value every day, and know that the growing
number of “haters†means that you are doing important
things.
13. Give Up Your Dependency on Social Media & Television
“The trouble is, you think you have time†— Jack Kornfield
Impulsive web browsing and television watching are
diseases of today’s society.
These two should never be an escape from your life or your
goals.
Unless your goals depend on either, you should minimise (or
even eliminate) your dependency on them, and direct that
time towards things that can enrich your life.
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Nsidibe26
Ever Had Buyer's Remorse? Share Your Experience. -
~0.4 mins read
Mine was during those days when i was still very young and
naive.
I had put all my hard-earned egg nest of 10k then to procure
this Nokia E97 slide symbian phone at that notorious Alaba
Int Market.
I was shocked that the battery and other subsequent ones i
bought with bitterness did not last more than an hour.I was
using three batteries for one phone.
I later dump it somewhere in the shelf before i had peace of
mind.
Thats all about it.
If you got any buyer's remorse before,share it here all for
the fun guys!
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