that's over consideration of that is very bad.
Be mindful of that and do things in moderation. Look, this is simple and it has actually worked for so many people. The less you care about your haters the more you frustrate them into liking you.

Usually, haters are the biggest fans of any fan page. They act like they don't care yet stalk you like you're their life support. Take some celebrities for examples, their haters are secretly their top fans because they're are always busy finding fault to use against their down fall. You have to find it normal and move on with life, if they can't beat you they will definitely join you so stick to your go path and don't bulge.

 

My dear the difference is so clear from the question. Thoughts are not reality, there is a saying "action speaks louder than voice". You don't need to convince people to change their mind on what they think about you, is their choice besides they have freedom of thoughts to think whatever they want,is it not their mind again is it yours?

Is obvious that sooner or later your actions will speak for you and that is what will change what people think you do and not the other way round.

 

Don't mind what people think a lot and be focused on what you do because that's the real evidence of you.

Be yourself and proud of who you are because if you don't, people's opinion will change who you really are to what you're not leading to making mistakes you aren't suppose to make which can leave you in regrets.

Trust nobody accept your God and make your life decisions yourself to avoid blaming anybody because you're in control of your life.

Finally, youth is simply an attitude of mind the way you think and feel about something makes you who you are.