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Police Released My Husbands Killers Despite Evidence Wife Of Slain Ondo Chief

Olajumoke Lowo, wife of the Assistant Secretary of the Ugbonla community in Ilaje Local Government Area of Ondo State, speaks to GRACE EDEMA about how her husband, Bababo Lowo, was murdered by some members of the community Can you share what happened  the day your husband was attacked and killed? I wasn’t there when it happened. I had just given birth and was staying with my mother in Okuta. My husband was a driver. He also served as the Assistant Secretary to the Baale of our town. The incident happened on February 13th, five days after I gave birth to our baby. He told me he would come to pick me up and take me back home to Ugbonla, but when I didn’t hear from him, I called one of our neighbours. The neighbour told me that my husband had been wounded. Later, I called one of his friends, but someone else picked up the phone and said they were rushing him to Ayeileja Hospital in Ugbonla. After that, the person hung up. I became very restless. Soon after, I heard he had been referred from Ayeileja Hospital. That was when I knew something serious had happened, but no one wanted to tell me because I had just had a baby. They finally told me the next day. I watched videos of how my husband was running with an axe stuck in his head while people chased him. Their faces were visible in the video. The videos were shared on social media, and I also shared them. I recognised some of the people in the video. They were from our town. One of them had earlier threatened to kill my husband, saying there would be no Baale in the town. I know those involved—I can name some of them and will recognise them if I see them. You mentioned someone poured salt into your husband’s car. Is that true? Yes. It was the same man who had earlier threatened my husband. He told my husband to stop supporting Baale Sipe Adebowale or he would kill him or drive him out of the town. Now, the man has done it—he has killed my husband. What happened after your husband died? They came to our house and destroyed everything. They also destroyed my shop. Since my husband passed away, I don’t know how I will survive with five children. Who is the man you believe is behind your husband’s death? He is the head of an association linked to a church in Ugbonla. He isn’t the baale but claims he doesn’t want anyone else to be baale in the town. He said he owns the town and would shake it to its roots. Did your husband ever support this man? Yes, initially. But when the new baale came in and saw his wicked behaviour, my husband decided to distance himself from him (suspect). The new baale said the man had no compassion and that his hands were full of blood. That was when the man threatened to kill my husband—and now he has succeeded. Do you think the police have handled the case properly? No. At first, the police arrested the right people—those who attacked my husband. But later, they released them and instead arrested those who supported the baale. The case has now been disrupted. What do you want Nigerians and the government to do? I want justice. I want the Nigerian government to hear my voice. I want full justice for my husband. The man who killed my husband used diabolical means and destroyed my life. I am now left with five children, no money, and no home. All I ask for is justice. The police told us they had no fuel in their vehicle while my husband, the community secretary, was being hacked to death with nail-filled planks. How old was your husband? He was 36 years old, and I am 35. We got married in 2010. We had five children—he already had one before I met him, and I gave birth to four more. Can you introduce yourself? My name is Sipe Adebowale. I am the Baale of Ugbonla community in Ilaje Local Government Area, Ondo State. Recently, your house was attacked and a member of your community leadership was killed. What really happened? Yes, the incident happened on Thursday, 13th February. That morning, around 8:30 am, I noticed a group of about four young men roaming near my house, all armed with sharp objects. At first, I thought they were just heading out for some work, so I ignored them. Unknown to me, they were actually targeting me. Fortunately, two women were standing in front of my house, watching them. I believe their presence made the men retreat temporarily and prevented them from attacking me at that moment. What did you do next? After bathing and getting dressed, I was about to lie down and rest, but something in my spirit warned me not to sleep. So, I stepped outside and saw a massive crowd—over 200 people, including children, women, and armed men—gathered in front of the house of a religious leader in our community. His house is on the same street as mine, just a few poles away. I was shocked to see them holding weapons—cutlasses, planks, and more. I sensed danger and decided to take an alternative route to the local motor park, where I usually sit with my cabinet members near a bakery. We sat there, discussing, as usual. What happened next? Not even 40 minutes later, the group stormed the area, singing war songs. Two young men were ringing a bell and shouting, ‘There’s no more baale in this community! Anyone who says otherwise will be dealt with!’ I immediately instructed my people to enter a nearby bet shop for safety. We sat inside, trying to stay calm while they moved through the community, declaring that the king had fallen and causing panic. Did they come back to your house? Yes. When they didn’t find me at the motor park, they returned to my house and destroyed it completely. Every door, window, and louvre was shattered. Then they came back to the place where we were hiding. Believing we might be inside a room upstairs in the same building, they climbed up and vandalised the top floor. When they didn’t find us, they threatened to burn the place down. They shouted, ‘Go and bring petrol! Let’s burn the house down!’ At that moment, a woman named Aruwayo Folasade shouted from inside, begging them not to set the room on fire, saying she was in there with her father and children. Were you inside that same room? Yes! Inside the room were myself, Adewale, Aruwayo Damilola, Aruwayo Olabode, Aruwayo Folasade, and Lowo Bababo, the man they eventually murdered. We had locked ourselves in for safety. I hid under the bed. They broke the window louvres and used weapons to pull back the curtain. That was how they saw us. They then forced the door open and stormed in. Everyone tried to flee, but they caught Lowo Bababo. How did they kill him? They attacked him brutally with planks embedded with six-inch nails. They struck his head so forcefully that his brain came out. He was bleeding heavily but still tried to run for his life. They chased him down and continued to beat him. Even after he fell, he begged them to spare his life, but they refused. All of this was recorded on video by the attackers themselves—they even posted it on social media. Did they take him to hospital? Yes. First, they took him to The Van Hospital, but the staff said the doctor wasn’t available. So they moved him to another hospital nearby. By then, he was barely alive—he was likely only breathing his last. Were you still hiding at this time? Yes. I remained under the bed, calling the police repeatedly. They kept telling me they had no fuel in their vehicles. I even told them I would pay for the fuel—any amount—if only they could come and rescue us. Lowo Bababo also called a police officer named Ola, but he was given the same excuse: “No fuel.” Eventually, I called my sister in Igbokoda and asked her to go directly to the police station. Did she manage to get them to respond? She offered them N30,000 for fuel, but they told her they had no clearance from the Divisional Police Officer. At that point, I told her that if anything happened to me, she should look under the bed for my body. Thankfully, she and her husband arrived quickly. I guided them over the phone to where I was hiding. They started the car engine while I prepared to escape. As I came out, a large crowd chased us, throwing bottles and wielding weapons. How did you manage to escape? By God’s grace, I escaped the community that day. I later visited the hospital where they had taken Lowo Bababo, but he had already passed away. It was only after his death that the police finally showed up. What message do you have for the public and the government? This was a targeted attack, meant to kill me and others aligned with the baale institution. My house was destroyed, my people were beaten, and one of my most trusted aides was brutally murdered. I am calling for justice. Those responsible must be held accountable. We cannot allow terror to replace tradition and leadership. Even after the killing, the attackers paraded the streets with weapons, right in front of the police—yet the police did nothing. I still can’t understand how that was allowed to happen. Was it only Lowo that was captured and killed by the attackers? No. They also captured another person, Omodunni Sanumi. They were about to kill him as well, but some of the attackers realised that Lowo was already close to death. So they decided not to kill Omodunni. Instead, they dragged him to the house of the religious leader for further torment. What happened thereafter? At the religious leader’s house, some of the attackers argued over whether to kill Omodunni, but many decided against it. While they were fighting among themselves, Omodunni saw an opportunity and managed to escape. He ran as fast as he could and made it to Ugbonla Police Station, which is nearby. The police station is very close to the religious leader’s house. In fact, it’s not far from mine either. But even though it was that close, the police didn’t come to help—not even while the attackers were parading openly with weapons. It’s something I still find incredibly difficult to understand.

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Proper Vaccination Effective In Preventing Spread Of Diphtheria Don

Professor of Public Health and Epidemiology at the Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria, Prof. Aisha Abubakar, tells AJIBADE OMAPE about the recent outbreak of diphtheria in various states across the country and how the government can sensitise the public to preventive measures for this infectious disease Can you explain what diphtheria is and why it poses a significant health threat, especially in Nigeria? Diphtheria is a vaccine-preventable disease and it is one of the diseases that routine immunisation protects against in Nigeria as part of the pentavalent vaccine. Diphtheria is a respiratory infection. Although it can affect other organs, it is caused by bacteria and is related to the development of a pseudomembrane in the throat, which leads to difficulty in breathing. The bacteria may also produce a toxin that can affect the heart and other organs. What factors contributed to the outbreak in states like Lagos, Kano, Yobe, Katsina, and the FCT? If you look at the statistics from the Nigerian Centre for Disease Control in most of these five states, Kano State is the lead state with the highest number of cases. Yobe, Kano, and a host of other northern states are responsible for over 90 per cent of the cases. I think the Lagos State case gained media attention because it occurred in a secondary school, which received a lot of media coverage. Essentially, most of the states that have reported diphtheria have not just been affected this year. This outbreak began about two years ago and is still showing no signs of abating. Diphtheria is a vaccine-preventable disease and, if you look at the statistics from the NCDC, you’ll find that most of the children or people affected have not completed their vaccination with the diphtheria vaccine. The diphtheria vaccine is part of the pentavalent vaccine, and the toxoid is given as part of this vaccine to children. So, most of those who got infected were not vaccinated. For vaccine-preventable diseases, some vaccines are available, but sometimes people do not use them due to fears of side effects, misconceptions about the safety of the vaccines, and a host of other reasons. How severe is this outbreak compared to previous ones? Well, the numbers are still being assessed from the initial outbreak. So, I don’t have the data for the current outbreak. They are counting the cases from the first ones. Essentially, you can’t say how serious it is, but I can tell you that last year, more cases were reported than this year. However, it is still early in the year, so maybe it’s too soon to compare this year’s cases with last year’s. What demographic groups are most at risk? Generally, children are more affected, as well as the elderly who are over 60 years old. However, those who are not vaccinated, regardless of age, can also be affected by the outbreak. What proactive measures should the Nigerian government and health agencies put in place to prevent future outbreaks of diphtheria? The main thing is to conduct risk communication so that people know which groups are susceptible and to mount a vaccination campaign. The vaccination campaign should target vulnerable groups, particularly children under five years old and the elderly. Children should be the primary focus for the vaccination campaign. How effective is vaccination in controlling the spread, and what percentage of the population needs to be immunised for herd immunity? I don’t have the exact details, but usually, a particular percentage of the population needs to be immunised to prevent an outbreak, which is called herd immunity. Around 75-80% of the population needs to be vaccinated for herd immunity. As I mentioned earlier, diphtheria is a vaccine-preventable disease. The vaccine must have passed through the entire chain and not been compromised in any way. It is very effective in preventing infection, which is why it is included in routine immunisation in Nigeria. Given Nigeria’s challenges with vaccine hesitancy, misinformation, and access to healthcare, how can vaccination coverage be improved? To improve vaccine coverage, you must create demand for the vaccine. There must be a lot of risk communication and campaigning to ensure people understand the relationship between vaccination and being free of disease. If you mount an effective campaign, people will be more willing to get their children vaccinated. Despite misconceptions, there should be a sensitisation programme to inform people that these vaccines are life-saving and can protect their children from infection. What immediate steps should affected states take to curb the spread of diphtheria? Affected states should mount massive immunisation campaigns and vaccination drives. Additionally, there should be training for healthcare workers, starting from those at health posts, community health extension workers, and community health officers at primary healthcare facilities, to doctors and nurses in secondary and tertiary facilities. This training should focus on recognising cases early and providing appropriate treatment. This is crucial because, with diphtheria, early recognition and treatment with antibiotics, as well as administering the toxoid, can prevent severe outcomes in affected individuals. Are our hospitals and healthcare facilities adequately equipped to handle outbreaks of infectious diseases like this? It depends on the infectious disease in question. For diphtheria, one of the complications is that it can cause difficulty in breathing, and if that occurs, you may need respirators and ventilators. However, even in some of our tertiary institutions, there are very few ventilators available. So, early detection and administering the toxoid are the best bet before a person experiences respiratory difficulty. Are there gaps in our healthcare facilities when it comes to being adequately equipped, and what gaps need to be addressed to help handle outbreaks of infectious diseases like this? For many infectious diseases, particularly those that can be transmitted from one person to another, it is essential to have isolation facilities. This is not only for diphtheria but also for diseases like measles and Lassa fever. There is a need for well-equipped isolation centres in our healthcare facilities that can be used once there is an outbreak. These centres help prevent the risk of infection for other patients. How important is early detection, and what symptoms should the public look out for to seek medical attention promptly? Early detection is crucial in preventing the spread of diphtheria. Initially, diphtheria can present with symptoms similar to other respiratory infections, such as fever, cough, and swelling of the lymph nodes. It is the characteristic membrane that develops in the throat that clinches the diagnosis, even before samples are taken for testing. It is important to have a high index of suspicion, particularly for those who have had contact with individuals diagnosed with diphtheria. That’s the key to early detection. What are the best treatment options for diphtheria, and how accessible are they in Nigeria? Diphtheria is caused by bacteria, and antibiotics are very useful in treating the infection. Erythromycin and penicillin are commonly used for treatment, and penicillin is given to those who have been in contact with infected individuals. The choice of antibiotics depends on the susceptibility of the bacteria to specific drugs. Do we have enough antibiotics and antitoxins available to treat patients effectively, or do we face a problem of shortages? We have antibiotics available, but there can sometimes be issues with the efficacy of some of them, as many substandard drugs may be circulating in the market. The toxoid is not as readily available as the antibiotics, but it is still available in the country. The key is to have a high index of suspicion, use the right antibiotics, and administer the toxoid to those infected before the disease progresses to severe outcomes. Does diphtheria pose a death risk for people who get infected? It depends on the severity of the infection. Like other vaccine-preventable diseases, diphtheria can present with non-specific symptoms similar to other respiratory diseases. Severe complications, such as difficulty in breathing and damage to the heart and other organs, can lead to fatalities. Currently, in Nigeria, has there been any known recorded case of death or deaths related to diphtheria? Yes, there have been several cases of death across the country. For example, in the recent Lagos outbreak at King’s College, one of the students developed complications and passed away. Other parts of the country have also seen fatalities, although not as many as those from diseases like malaria and Lassa fever. How can other schools and organisations with a large population prevent the same incidents that occurred at King’s College? I think the answer is vaccination! Vaccination! Vaccination! As I mentioned earlier, diphtheria is a vaccine-preventable disease. If children are immunised and mount an immune response, they will be protected against infection. Early detection and treatment are also key because for those who receive antibiotics and the toxoid, complications can be prevented. What long-term policies should the Federal Government adopt to strengthen epidemic preparedness and response to infectious diseases? I think having the NCDC is key. One of the things that can be done to strengthen preparedness for epidemics is to have regional centres that support the NCDC in tackling diphtheria and other diseases. As a researcher in public health and infectious diseases, what recommendations do you have for integrating scientific research into Nigeria’s disease control strategies? The Nigerian Centre for Disease Control runs several programmes, such as the Nigerian Field Epidemiology and Laboratory Training Programme, which attempts to marry research with fieldwork. People are trained 25% in the classroom and 75% in the field. This can help improve surveillance, epidemic preparedness, and response. How can public health agencies and the media collaborate to raise awareness and educate Nigerians about diphtheria prevention and treatment? Interviews like this are important for raising awareness. Journalists and health professionals must collaborate, starting with basic media channels like radio programmes, television shows, and newspaper articles. In communities where it may be difficult to reach people, radio, especially in local dialects, can be an effective tool for raising awareness. What role do community leaders, religious institutions, and schools play in ensuring better vaccine uptake and public compliance with health guidelines? Community leaders are crucial, particularly in traditional settings. Before launching any programme, it is essential to gain their support. Religious institutions also play a vital role, as they can reach large audiences and encourage vaccination. Health professionals can work with religious institutions to spread the message after services. How does Nigeria’s response to diphtheria compare to global best practices in managing infectious disease outbreaks, and what lessons can we learn from other countries? Vaccine-preventable diseases can occur in both developing and developed countries. For example, the recent measles outbreak in the United States shows that complacency with vaccination can lead to outbreaks. The key takeaway is that vaccination is critical to preventing infections, and Nigeria can learn from these international experiences.

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We Dated For Eight Years, But Married As Virgins Couple Celebrating 54 Years Marriage

Dr Moses Omole and his wife, Pastor Esther, speak to TEMITOPE ADETUNJI about the beauty of love, the strength of commitment, and the faith that have kept their marriage thriving for over five decades How do you feel having spent over five decades with your wife? I feel fulfilled. Everything has worked out well. Being married to my wife for over 50 years has been a blessing, and we thank God for everything. We had the resources to take care of ourselves, take care of our children, and manage other needs. I am grateful to God for everything, in all aspects of life. Where are you from? I am from the Ilaje area of Ilesa, in Osun State, while my wife is from Ekiti State. My father was a farmer and had four wives. My mother was the second wife. We all lived together in the same house: father, wives, and children. We were raised as one big family. When we reached school age, we were separated and sent to different schools. My father trained me with all he had, sending me to school. When I needed further education, God provided support, and I continued my studies, eventually reaching the university level. I am the first son, and I took on the responsibility of supporting my siblings after my father passed away. Before his death, he had done his best to support us. Afterwards, I started earning a small income, which allowed me to support my siblings. I thank God that they are all well-established now and can support themselves without depending on me. How old was your father when he passed? He was about 65 years old. Can you share a bit about your career? I came from a very poor background but later pursued education, completing secondary school and university. I attended Joseph Ayo Babalola University in Osun State and later pursued postgraduate studies abroad. After leaving the university, I worked with the Ministry of Commerce and Industry and the Cocoa Research Institute of Nigeria in Ibadan, where I conducted research. Eventually, I moved to a private agricultural establishment. Later, I became a lecturer at Joseph Ayo Babalola University, where I taught for many years before retiring. How many years did you spend teaching at the university? I spent about 18 years teaching an agricultural course. How did you meet your wife? We grew up together. I first knew her when she was in primary school. We were innocent children at the time, not knowing we would end up together. She was my younger sister’s friend, and that was how I got to know her. What attracted you to her, and how did you ask her to marry you? She and my younger sister were friends, which brought us closer. Over time, we decided to marry each other. I naturally fell in love with her. We shared mutual trust and understanding, which made our relationship work smoothly. There was never any regret. What year did you get married? We got married in 1971. The first few years of marriage often involve adjustments. What changes did you have to adapt to? Honestly, I didn’t face any major challenge. We were both young when we started, and I was 29 years old. We understood each other well, adjusted easily, and there were no regrets. How old are you now? I am 83 years old. What life lessons have you learnt from childhood until now? I have learnt many lessons, but I am especially thankful for the kindness of God, which I always recognise. I also appreciate how some people simply like me without even knowing me. Life hasn’t always been easy, but it has been manageable. People have been benevolent towards me, and I thank God for everything. What were your roles in the home? I was focused on research, which often occupied my time. My wife, being a natural teacher, was also busy with her responsibilities. We shared experiences and responsibilities at home, and we’ve never had any issues. She has always been very cooperative, and although we may not have been as wealthy as others, we’ve never struggled. How old is your wife? She is 80 years old. What has kept your marriage strong for over five decades, considering that many marriages struggle in the early years? I believe it’s the mercy of God and our understanding of each other. We’ve never had serious arguments or disagreements. We’ve always trusted and supported each other. How did you feel when you had your first child? As a newly married man, it was a fantastic experience. My first child is a boy, and we were overjoyed. We love him dearly, as well as our other children. How many children do you have? We have five children. As a grandfather, how do you feel seeing your grandchildren? My grandchildren are amazing, likeable children. Although they don’t live with me, I feel close to them, especially since we can talk regularly over the phone or see each other on video calls via WhatsApp. What do you consider your greatest achievement? My greatest achievement is that everything has gone well with me. I haven’t faced any major challenge or pressure in my marriage, and I’m grateful for that. I owe much of this to my wife, who has made me comfortable and supported me throughout our life together. I have no regrets, not even for a single moment. How do you think marriages today compare to when you got married? In today’s world, many couples focus on their careers and personal ambitions, which can sometimes detract attention from their marriage. In our case, our home and happiness were always our priorities, and we focused on our children. Do you think marriages today are more difficult than when you got married? I believe the focus has shifted towards chasing wealth and status. Many couples don’t prioritise their marriage, which I think is key to long-lasting happiness. In our case, our home and the well-being of our children came first. You have been blessed with children and grandchildren. What values do you instil in your family that have helped shape them today? I believe the value of hard work is essential, and I thank God that they have all achieved their goals. They are well-educated in their respective disciplines. They live independently and are self-made, fulfilling their responsibilities effectively. They are progressing both academically and in their careers. I have no problems at all. None of them has ever had any issue in my house. With the economic situation, what advice would you give newlyweds regarding having children? I would advise them to have only as many children as they can take care of—children they can manage well. This way, their resources will be enough for both the children and themselves. They should focus on their careers and perform their work diligently. What has been the most rewarding aspect of parenting for you? The most rewarding aspect is that children make their parents happy. All our children have gone through education, and they all have good jobs now. Some are in the professional field, including education, and they continue to teach and enjoy their careers. Since they started getting married, we have not had any problems to solve for them. God has been wonderful, and we give Him all the glory. What does love mean to you now compared to when you first got married? There is no difference. For 54 years, how have you kept the spark alive in your marriage? To me, it has always been the same since we started. Nothing has changed. We don’t quarrel or argue, and we continue to live happily, as God has provided for us. In today’s world, many young people struggle with relationships and commitments. What advice would you give to young couples today? Your relationship is first and foremost with your partner, whether your husband or wife. You should remain loyal and faithful to that relationship. I have never had any reason to quarrel or experience disagreement that led to separation—not even for a day. In fact, I always miss my wife whenever she’s out, and we are so connected that I always thank God for it. What is the secret to a lasting and fulfilling marriage? Trust your wife, and your wife should trust you. Also, don’t pursue things you cannot manage. Don’t chase after what you cannot easily achieve. Be satisfied with what you have, which is a gift from God. When you do this, you’ll have no problems. I’ve never had a quarrel. What are your hopes and prayers for the years ahead in your marriage? My prayers are for continued peace and happiness. How would you describe your marriage of 54 years? I would say all glory to God. It has been a time without regrets. We need to thank God for every day, every minute, every second; it has been God. Looking back at these 54 years—five whole decades—it’s clear that we cannot attribute our journey to our own wisdom or efforts. It can only be God. We see marriages collapsing all around us, but we can’t take credit for our own success. It has been God. Both of you sound so healthy and sharp, even at this age. What’s the secret? It’s just God. That’s all I can say. I gave my life to Jesus Christ at 19. One of the expatriates at St Margaret’s School, Ilesa, introduced me to the Scripture Union early in life. At a camp, I gave my life to Christ, and since then, God has led me. Someone recently looked at me and said, ‘Wow, you’re 80?!’ I told him, ‘It’s not me. It’s not about what I eat.’ Yes, we eat simple food—beans, vegetables—but it is not about that. It’s about who I am in Christ. My faith has been my strength. It’s not my doing; it’s just God. What would you say is your greatest achievement? In education, I thank God for my father. Like my husband, I came from a humble background. We met in primary school—his younger sister was my friend. At that time, there was nothing romantic between us. We were so young. It wasn’t until much later that our relationship evolved. When we started courting, he was abroad for seven years. After I left school, I went to the University of Ibadan and later into teaching. When he returned and pursued his second degree at the University of Newcastle, I travelled with our first son to join him. I completed my postgraduate diploma in education before we returned to Nigeria. Career-wise, I rose to the peak of my profession as the principal of St Margaret’s, the oldest school in Osun State and my alma mater. My foundation, built by God, shaped every other aspect of my life, and that’s why I am where I am today. I went into nursing for a few months before transitioning into teaching. I had to leave nursing because I couldn’t bear seeing people suffer, cry, or go through pain. It just wasn’t in my nature. So, I left. I went back to teaching, and I loved it. Ever since then, I’ve been in teaching. What attracted you to him and made you feel he was the one? As I said, we knew each other from childhood, not as future spouses, but because his sister was my friend. Later, when he attended Ilesa Grammar School and I was at St Margaret’s, we would greet each other like siblings. Much later, circumstances brought us together, and we started courting. By then, I knew his background, his home, and his values. He was humble, pleasant, gentle, and unassuming. He came from a decent family, and I had visited their home in Ere, where they lived. At first, my Ekiti parents were hesitant. I attended St Martin’s Primary School in Ijebu-Ijesa before moving to St Margaret’s. Afterwards, I went to the University of Ibadan, completed my studies, and returned to teach at St Margaret’s. When he proposed, my parents were reluctant because they wanted me to marry someone from Ekiti, not Ilesa. Since I was born in Ilesa, they wanted to maintain our Ekiti identity. But God had other plans. Eventually, my father not only accepted my husband but also became close friends with him. Being a pastor and a wife, how do you create that balance? We are both people of faith, so it wasn’t really difficult. I am a fully ordained pastor in the Redeemed Christian Church of God. My husband, though not a pastor, is the Baba Ijo in his church. He comes from an African Church background and currently serves as the Baba Ijo in his village church. So yes, he is a man of faith. How has your faith played a role in your marriage? Tremendously! Without our faith, I don’t know where we would be. As I said, marriage is not always a bed of roses. There were tough times, but with God, nothing is impossible. Through prayer and faith, we overcame challenges. What should young women look out for before getting married? These days, I’m amazed at how people approach marriage. In our time, parents were deeply involved. Today, that’s no longer the case, and it’s one of the major problems we see. If they are people of faith, then God must be their first consultant. But many leave Him out, date carelessly, and start where they should end. Physical intimacy before marriage diminishes the excitement and purpose of the wedding night. As a matter of fact, my husband and I married as virgins. How long did you date before getting married? We dated for about eight or nine years. He was in Russia for seven years for his first degree while I was at the University of Ibadan. After he returned, we courted for about a year and a half before finally deciding to marry. How did you keep the relationship strong? We embraced effective communication. Despite the fact that there were no phones in those days, my husband is a great writer. He wrote to me consistently, and that kept the love alive.

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I Never Believed Id Live Up To 97 Nonagenarian

Chief Mrs Funke Arthur-Worrey, a distinguished matriarch, community leader and philanthropist, is a former president and Head of the Board of Trustees of the International Women’s Society and widow of the late legal luminary, Steady Arthur-Worrey. In this feature to celebrate her as she turns 98, she tells GODFREY GEORGE about her early life in Nigeria and England, her career as a chartered secretary and fashion executive in London and why she did not vote for President Bola Tinubu despite campaigning for him It was as though the sun had been granted a final, glorious day to shine before retreating behind the clouds. The heat hung heavily over Lagos, thick and deliberate, as this reporter arrived at the Ikoyi residence of Chief Funke Arthur-Worrey that Sunday afternoon. A domestic worker greeted this reporter at the gate and ushered him inside, politely requesting a few minutes of patience. The sitting room was a quiet marvel: walls adorned with oil paintings, bold brushstrokes, carvings, and numerous large canvases, alongside so many sofas that one would wonder whether Mama had ever had the chance to sit on all of them. Each piece of art was interspersed with family portraits, which brought the room to life. The air was filled with a sense of history, tastefully preserved. “These artworks,” the domestic worker explained, “tell stories of time and place.” “Each piece you see here means something,” he continued. “They were collected from different places for different reasons. Mama will give you all the details when she comes.” He then settled me into a seat. “Is that not President Bola Tinubu there?” I asked, pointing to a picture on the wall. Before the tour guide could respond, Mama emerged from her room. Draped in an elegant flowing gown, her presence was unmistakable: regal yet disarmingly warm. Her face was gently made up, and her laughter, loud and vibrant, echoed through the room like music. “It is Tinubu o. It is Tinubu. He used to come here, in my living room. I campaigned for him, but I did not vote for him,” she said. “Why, though?” I asked. “I did not like the idea of a Muslim-Muslim ticket, so even though I campaigned for him, I voted for another candidate because of that singular reason. But now that he is President, I support him because God commands me to do so,” she said, settling into a sofa. “Come and sit next to me, my dear,” she told me, clearing a throw pillow to make space on the large sofa. We exchanged a few soft hugs. “Nice perfume,” she remarked. “I love your hair, too,” she added, gesturing to my fully styled hair. Blushing slightly, I flustered as I found my notepad. At 98, Mama still had her charm. She moved with a grace that belied her years. Fanta and popcorn arrived first—her idea of a welcoming spread. “Ah! You cannot come here and not eat anything. Abi, it’s Coke you want? Bring Coke, Faith. Chilled one. From the freezer, she called out to her housekeeper. It wasn’t long before she disappeared briefly, returning with a bowl of chestnuts and more popcorn. “You must eat,” she said. “Eat so that you’ll have the energy to ask your questions. You cannot come to Mama’s home and not eat. Ah! It’s a taboo!” The hospitality in her voice was unmistakable. Throughout the encounter, she asked if her guest was comfortable, if the light was too bright, if the seat was soft enough, if the ceiling fan should be turned off, or if the standing fan should be brought closer. “Na so Mama dey do o,” said Faith. “She is always cheerful, always generous. That is why I love working for her.” A heritage rooted in royalty Born into the esteemed Ogunmade Onile Gbale Chieftaincy House of Isale Eko, Arthur-Worrey’s lineage is steeped in Lagosian nobility. Her brother, the late Chief H.O. Davies, was a renowned legal luminary and nationalist, further cementing the family’s legacy in Nigeria’s history. Throughout her life, Arthur-Worrey has been a beacon of leadership and philanthropy. She served as the President of the International Women’s Society and led its Board of Trustees, championing women’s rights and empowerment. Her commitment to community service is further exemplified by her roles in the Nigerian Federation of Business and Professional Women and the Ikeja Lioness Club. Married to the late Steady (formerly Stephen) Arthur-Worrey, a distinguished Queen’s Counsel, their union was a partnership of intellect and service. Their son, Fola Arthur-Worrey, continued this legacy, serving as Lagos State’s Solicitor General and Commissioner for Lands. Two years to 100 “So I was going to ask you—at 98, it’s just two years to 100,” asked this reporter. “I know. It’s unbelievable,” she said, her eyes twinkling. “You see, when I turned 80, I thanked God because I never expected it. At 90 and then 95, I still said, ‘Me? A sinner like me?’ So now, at 98, how does it feel? I feel good. “I feel grateful. I now truly know there is a God Almighty. We have one God; we don’t worship two. He says, ‘I am a jealous God.’ If you believe and trust Him, He is there for you. And he has looked after me.” She speaks of God with the serenity of someone whose life has been full, yet humble. “Do you still go out?” I asked. “Yes,” she replied cheerfully. “I go out regularly. I have my driver who drives me anywhere I want to go. Sometimes, I take a walk around the neighbourhood. I also eat well. I go for walks. I even go to the market sometimes. I go and buy akara in the Lekki area. There is a street after Ajah—what’s the name now? The end of Ajah. There’s a market there. “We also used to go to Epe. We would stay there, look at the animals, and eat. One woman used to fry akara there for years. She’s not alive anymore. We’d eat her akara till dawn and then drive back. “I am always very happy. I’ve enjoyed my life. God has been good to me. I thank Him, though I can never thank Him enough. Jesus is the captain of the ship, and He’ll take us to the end.” There was no grandiosity in her stories, only the quiet joy of someone who had tasted life. “Looking back now, especially as a young schoolgirl, what are you most grateful for?” Saturday PUNCH asked. “Hmm… I’m grateful I was born into a loving family. I knew my great-grandfather on my mother’s side and interacted with him. My father was someone who loved everybody. As a little girl of about five or six, I would cling to him and go everywhere, to my grandparents and aunties. We were very close. Lagos was not as populated as it is now, but we were a family. We were close.”  “I will say I’ve been lucky. From my mother’s side in Abeokuta to my father’s in Esaleko, we were known to one another. There was love. Aunties who weren’t blood relatives were still aunties. Same for uncles. Lagos was very close-knit in the 60s and 70s.” She recalled names and streets like old friends. Her memory, still sharp, wove together the Lagos of yesteryear, a place threaded with familiarity and community. “What do you remember about your mother?” this reporter asked. “My mother was from Abeokuta. She was a trader. She traded in everything. The last thing I remember, she used to go to Old Apapa to buy condemned army uniforms from the Second World War. “These uniforms were imported by agents, not ours, but British ones. They were strong and of good quality. She and her friends had contacts and were allowed into the shipyards to collect them. That kind of thing cannot happen now with the Boko Haram era. But back then, people wore those British uniforms. She would buy strong shoes too, especially from Kaduna and Igbo land, and then resell them. “Before that, she sold clothes and had help from cousins, aunties, nephews, and maids. My childhood was beautiful.” She smiled then, fondness in every line on her face. Lessons from my mother “My mother was a disciplinarian. You could not misbehave. If someone from school or the neighbourhood reported you, you were in trouble. Not just me, all my siblings. If you said you were going out, you had to say exactly where. If you said you were going to the Williams’s house for a birthday and told her you’d return by six o’clock, you better be home by six. “Back then, we didn’t separate religion. Even though people were Muslim or Christian, we celebrated together. During Ileya, everyone joined. During Christmas, everyone celebrated. It was beautiful. “She wasn’t overly strict, but we respected her. She used to joke with us, asking, ‘Do you want akara?’ She spoiled us in her way, but respect and discipline were key. We respected elders. If they correct you, you must apologise. Saturdays were for chores. Either you swept, cleaned, or went to the market. They gave you two shillings to go to Balogun and buy foodstuffs. We were trained properly. “We were close to our cousins and neighbours. It was love all through. I’m grateful I was born into that,” Mama said. The sad thing, she continued, was that her mother died early. “She died young, at 62,” she said, with sadness in her tone. “My father died in 1940. He was over 50. They both died young. But I had my maternal grandparents for much longer. I was lucky in that regard.” Moving abroad and missing home “Eventually, when you go to England, it’s different,” she said. “You don’t have that closeness. I love my family dearly. All of them would be here if they could. But in some ways, I’m a private person.” Then, leaning back, she added with a playful smile, “You’re coming on the 23rd, right? You’ll see me. You’ll meet some of my family members. You cannot miss this big celebration. I have tagged it, “My Year of Thanksgiving” because I never expected to see 98.” Her pride in her family was palpable, even as she acknowledged the rhythms of modern life. “I have family all around. My nieces are still alive, though they’re often busy. They communicate through social media. I am not good with social media, but I try.” Near-death experience “God has been good to me, health-wise. As you can see,” she says with a smile that crinkles the corners of her eyes. For someone approaching her centenary, she exudes astonishing lucidity and warmth. But even the seemingly invincible have moments of reckoning. “I dare not tell Fola I have a headache,” she laughs, referring to her son. “All the doctors would come rushing.” Then, in a tone softened by recollection, she shares a moment of personal vulnerability, one that caught her entirely off guard. “Last time, I had a little issue, I fell,” she admits. “I’m so sorry. It never happened to me before.” It was on a Sunday, during communion at church. Everything had been perfectly ordinary, even joyful, as she had danced earlier in the service. But something shifted, subtly, inexplicably. She felt a wave of unease and, breaking from custom, sat back while the women processed to the altar. “That day was the anniversary of the Hospital Society. I had been invited as a special guest,” she explains. “After service, we were meant to go to the church extension to celebrate. But I didn’t stand up. Very unlike me.” What followed was a blur of concern and commotion. She collapsed, surrounded by doctors and nurses from the congregation, all attending to her. Her instincts pulled her homeward. “I thought, ‘This is it. This might be the end.” But it was obvious her body had other plans. “I told them I wanted to go home so I could be with my family,” she recalls, her voice tinged with resolve. But they insisted. She was taken to the church clinic, tested, and examined. It was not her first experience with medical scrutiny. Earlier on in the year, she said she’d spent three months in England, during which her children ferried her to one physician after another—NHS-trained and trusted friends all taking their turn. “They said I was fine. My heart was fine for my age.” Still, at the church clinic, concern mounted. Overheard whispers triggered a phone call: “Daddy, Daddy, Mummy is ill.” Her loyal driver informed her son, who gave immediate instructions: “Take her to Reddington. I’ll meet you there.” She recalls the journey, even in her weakened state. “I was only half-conscious. But I remember entering through the church gate, thinking they would open it for us. Then I saw the driver reversing. I said, ‘Where are you going?’” Her voice turns almost amused at the memory of herself: fragile, yet still keenly aware. “He didn’t answer. Just drove straight to Reddington.” At the hospital, she stayed for two nights. Doctors poked, prodded, and ran tests. The diagnosis was almost laughably simple: dehydration. “They said, ‘Mummy, do you know what? You need water. You’re dehydrated.’ They gave me fluids. And I came back to myself.” It was not the first time she had surprised those around her with a return to strength. “They gave me medication—iron, vitamins… everything was chemical,” she says, almost with an air of resignation. “But anyway, I’m all right now. It’s one of those things I must thank God for.” And she does, often and openly. “Between God and man… when it happened, I said, ‘Take me home.’ Because I thought, if this is the time, then it’s the time. I truly thought it was.” Yet, the weeks passed. One, then another. And she recovered. Now, nearly two months later, she speaks of it with the clarity of one who understands how fleeting time can be. “They discharged me. They told me, ‘Mummy, drink a lot of water. And eat plenty of fruits.’ I told them, ‘Food is not the problem.’” She lets out a soft laugh, the humour not lost. She said her children rallied around her in the aftermath. “All the children bring all sorts of things. When I told them the doctor said I should eat more, they didn’t waste time. They brought me everything. So I thank God for that.” Her gratitude for her family is deep and constant. It brims when she speaks of them. “Let’s say it’s Christmas or Mother’s Day, I will just start seeing all these messages from my children. All kinds of beautiful messages.” Distance is no barrier. “The ones in England, even when it’s my birthday and they can’t come, they will send things. Gifts, cards, everything.” Secrets to a long, fruitful life “Eat right. Shun crime and love all your neighbours. Don’t be a tool in the hands of bad people or be used as a thug. Stay fit, eat lots of fruit and drink water. Exercise, too. But, most importantly, pray, because God is the owner of life,” she added with s smile.