5 Things That Improve Your Dating Life.

5 Things That Improve Your Dating Life.


5 Things That Improve Your Dating Life. Allison     661  

2 years ago

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1. Viewing relationships, affection and love as something natural.
A detrimental thing many people do in their dating life is they make love this sacred and magical thing that will solve all their problems.
 
And although love really is a beautiful thing, making it so big and unachievable is what makes you less attractive to others because it sends out desperate and needy vibes.
 
However, the more you view love and relationships as something that is natural and as something that comes naturally to you, the more likely it is for you to attract more matches and be more attractive to others.
 
2. Don't put people on a pedestal.
 
 
When we put people we feel attracted to on a pedestal, we impose an image on them that is not who they really are.

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Doing this will also make you less interesting to prospective partners because they feel and see that you treat them like some sort of god or goddess whose presence you feel unworthy of.
 
So put them off that pedestal and view them as an equal to you instead.
 
Remember that they too have to go to the toilet and take care of their needs.
 
3. Trying to control outcomes versus having a good time and fun.
Rejection sucks, I get it.
 
But if you approach dating with the intention of not trying to get rejected and thus trying to control outcomes, you have a 90% chance of making a bad first impression and self-sabotaging.
 
Instead, go on dates with no expectations. Go there to have fun, hang out and if the chemistry is right even for s£x.
 
Remember that s£x is as natural as eating and drinking and there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a desire for it.

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In fact, it is very natural to feel s£xually attracted to someone you like. Embrace this powerful energy and let it make you feel good.
 
4. Look out for red flags and take them serious.
Here are some of the most common red flags:
 
A) Asking you for money early on.
 
B) Lovebombing before and after the first dates.
 
C) They have a ring on their ringfinger.
 
 
 
Now some people may got this ring as a present from their grandparents or whatever but in most cases, it indicates they are married but keeping it a secret or going through a divorce.
 
D) They just got out of a long term relationship.
 
This is a red flag because here it is very likely they just want to use you as a rebound or make their ex jealous. Its up to you to decide if you want to get attached to someone who will drop you once their ex comes back.
 
5. Releasing attachments to ex partners.
Doing this before you start dating again will give you much better results for the following reasons:
 
A) You will be more present.
 
B) Emotional triggers wont bother you.
 
C) Your relationships will be much easier and healthier.
 
D) You are able to trust more.
 
Source: Opera News
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