There is something we don't want to talk about. It is how we demand things from people that we ourselves cannot give.

It is how we want to be treated in ways that we cannot reciprocate if asked to.

It is how we want people to give us chances and how we want to take up space in their lives even when we know that we are not enough to fill up that amount of space we want them to create.

What baffles me most is how we would turn around and say that we are hurting because we have been treated badly and shut out if their lives. 

We only talk about our side of the story but healing is in telling the story from their perspective. 

Until we deliberately choose to stand where they have stood, we might never see ourselves properly.

It is us who complain about people being crooked, wicked, hard to please and bitter and we go ahead saying we treat people thesame way they treat us then what are you, you end up being crooked, wicked, hard to please and bitter simply because you are trying to reciprocate an energy. 

You pick up their patterns and start learning their behavior till you forget it is not your policy and your perspective is different from theirs.

We all start behaving one way and acting thesame till it becomes the hypocrisy culture that we validate on social media with quotes and post.

And I want to ask what are you ? Another emotionally haunted being, another love starved individual, another hate driven talker, another I don't care what happens employee.

When we relate to people and ourselves we ought to have it in mind that we are on a journey. And every step is towards progress and everyday ought to make us better than the last.

It will be fine if who you are imitating is a complete version if themselves after all do not companies imitate finished goods.

That person you are reciprocating energy with is not where they want to be yet. So you're learning the behaviors of an unfulfilled man facing a hard life and you want your life to be better?

If you notice, since you started treating people the way they treat you, you just ended up with thesame problem as them. 

Do not pick up behavioural patterns of the lower version of someone else. It reduces who you are to that version you are learning.

Seek for ways to increase the quality of your life.

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